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45+ Heart Touching And Thoughtful Letters For Dads

Find the right words to pen down the best letters to your wonderful father.

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A father is the one we always look up to for advice and encouragement, whether he is strict or lenient. We don’t always communicate our feelings to him, but writing a letter to dad to say “thank you” or “I love you” could be a sweet way to touch this heart. He’s also the one who says ‘yes’ to our insane ideas even when no one else will. A father’s role in the lives of his child is critical. His hand on our shoulder is all it takes to make us feel protected and motivated to keep moving forward. Continue reading this post to see some sample letters from which you can take inspiration to write a letter to your father that will bring him joy and happiness.

45+ Sample Letters To Father

Here are a few sample letters or messages from a son and a daughter to their doting father.

1. A ‘thank you’ letter from a daughter

I have known you as a nurturing, loving, caring, and warm-hearted person. You are thoughtful and soft on the one hand and mysterious and a tough nut to crack on the other hand. I know you as a writer, critic, intellectual, and philosopher. I also know you as a person who can solve all my problems and forgive my mistakes.

Through this note, I would like to thank you for everything you have done for me. And let me tell you, I have loved you and will love you till my last breath.

Lots of love, Your daughter

2. Sweet letter from son

To my superhero Dad,

I want you to know that I feel so blessed to have you as my father. I have no words to describe the warmth and affection I get from you. You have always lifted me high and wrapped me in your tight hug. You have inspired me with a sense of security in my life.

Whenever you dropped me at school, I waited till the last bell, just to get back to you. Your lame jokes have always made me laugh so hard. What I am today is all because of your motivation all through my school and college days. I am glad I walked on the path you have shown me.

Thanks for being my best friend and the best dad !

Your son, (name)

3. A beautiful letter to a second dad

Dear Father,

Although you are not my biological dad, You have always been my strong pillar With the things you do and The love you shower.

You have always helped me Whenever I needed you the most. You have given me everything, Even when you did not have it.

You are no less than any other dad And I’m happy to have you in my life.

All I want to do is thank you For being as great as my biological dad would have been.

Love you, Daddy!

4. A letter of gratitude

Your jokes are like hidden treasures, always ready to make even the saddest days happier. From your funny puns to your contagious laughter, you bring a lot of joy to our family. Today, as I think about all the laughter in our home, I realize that you are not just my dad, you are the person who brings smiles to everyone’s faces, no matter where you are. Thank you for showing me how important it is to laugh, for making tough times easier, and for teaching me that sometimes, the best way to deal with problems is by smiling.

Your son (name)

5. Gratitude letter from a daughter

My dear Father,

You held me first in your arms, From that moment till today, I feel protected. You are my hero.

I adore your smile, And the way you look at me, with affection. I have never told you this before, But I miss you so much when you are away.

Thank you, Daddy, For listening to me always For putting your trust on me For making me a graceful woman from a naughty girl.

Thank you, Daddy, For being there for me For wiping my tears For laughing at my silly jokes.

Thank you, Daddy For giving me such a beautiful family For building a strong foundation for my life.

Your sweet little daughter, (name)

6. I love you letter from son/daughter

I know I never write to you and always write to mom. Don’t be surprised. I just want to express my joy and thank God for dropping me into your home.

My heart fills with happiness whenever you kiss me and hold my hands.

There are so many reasons why I love you, Dad. You stay out at work all day just to give me everything I ask for, you put in so much effort just to keep me happy, and most importantly, I know you will never stop loving me.

I will be praising you all my life because you taught me how to learn, speak, talk, and walk.

I love you forever, Dad.

7. Letter from son and daughter

You mean the world to us Only a father like you Could give love so unselfishly

Words are not enough to tell you How special you are to us We appreciate whatever you do for us We feel blessed and lucky To have a father like you.

We love you. (names of son and daughter)

8. Father’s day letter from a proud son

Dear Daddy,

Happy Father’s Day.

I cannot say this in person, and so I am writing this letter. I am so honored and blessed to be born as your son. You are the strong pillar of our family in the toughest times. Despite the financial crunch, you filled my childhood with happiness and showered me with the joy of little things in life.

Thank you for giving me such beautiful memories and learnings, which I will pass on to my children. You have guided me all through my life and helped me achieve what I wanted in my life. You have given me the freedom to explore things and taught me to be brave.

I am lucky to have you. Love you (name)

9. A letter from a loving child

My handsome Daddy,

You taught me discipline with your tough attitude. I know you were strict just to make me a better person. It is your upbringing that helped me become who I am today. You made me figure out how life is by letting me experience the good times and the bad times.

I want to tell everyone that you are an amazing father who made me a strong person. You have set a strong foundation to help me face the highs and lows of life. Thank you, dearest Daddy.

Love you a lot!

10. A gratitude letter from a little daughter

You have worked tirelessly to raise me And you have given me all the love and care I cannot express how thankful I am To have you in my life You have encouraged me To achieve anything under the sun You were not as vocal and soft as Mom But your quiet and strong presence Has influenced me to a great extent.

I love you. Your little girl (name)

11. A heartfelt thank you letter from a son

For teaching me there’s beauty in every place For taking me to faraway destinations and letting me explore For making me understand how gardening is done For helping me look at things from different perspectives For teaching me how to love and respect people I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart. Thank you, Daddy,

12. An earnest letter from a son

I know it might look weird to you that I am writing a letter instead of using WhatsApp or email. Well, I have never expressed my emotions to you, so I would like to let you know how happy I am to be your son.

Firstly, I thank you for giving me such a wonderful life. You nurtured me at every step of the way, giving me an excellent education, excellent advice, and a happy place to grow up into the man that I am today. I always wanted to thank you.

You always made me comfortable when I had to share confidential information, and you played video games with me when my friends did not accompany me. All these memories are etched in my heart, and I will never forget them. You molded me into a good person, and I want to do the same for my future children.

I see you not just as a good father , but also as an affectionate husband to mom and a responsible brother to aunt. I don’t know if I can repay you enough, but I want you to know that I am always here for you.

Thank you for everything.

Yours, (name)

13. A letter of appreciation from a son

I hope you all are doing well. I’m writing you this letter instead of just emailing you because I wanted to share some great news—I had a successful trial! I felt unstoppable on the court; it was one of those moments when I felt that every second of my hard work paid off.

I owe so much of this success to you, Dad. Your advice to always play smart, not just hard, transformed how I approach the game. Remembering your words helped me keep my focus and use my energy efficiently during the trial. I could almost hear your voice guiding me through each play, pushing me to do my best. Thank you for believing in me, even when I did not believe in myself. Your support has motivated me more than ever to aim for greatness. As I move forward, I promise to keep working hard. Not just to better myself but to make our family proud.

With all my love and gratitude,

14. A sincere letter to a single dad

You were always there in my plenty of ‘firsts.’ You took me to my first swimming class, planned my first vacation, signed my first mark sheet, helped me celebrate my first Halloween, and there are so many more.

I couldn’t love you more. You have given me the love of a mother and a father. There’s nobody who could take your place in my life.

I miss you so much. Yours, (name)

15. A Gratitude Letter From A Daughter For Accepting Her Choice Of Life Partner

As I sit down to write this letter, my heart is overflowing with gratitude and love for you. When I introduced you to my partner, I was really worried about how you would react. But you surprised me in the best way possible. You welcomed him into our family with open arms and open heart and that means everything to me.

Your acceptance and understanding have lifted a huge weight off my shoulders. Knowing that you support our relationship gives me so much happiness and peace of mind.

I want you to know that I’ll always treasure the values and lessons you’ve taught me. They’ve shaped who I am, and I’ll carry them with me as I start this new journey with the second man I love.

With all my gratitude,

16. A letter from a daughter getting married

Dearest Daddy,

From reading to traveling and drawing to playing, you have helped me all my life. Thank you for all the lovely father–daughter moments that we shared. I would cherish them all my life. Every second you spent with me gave me immense pleasure and a learning experience.

After my wedding tomorrow, I am just going to leave this house and not you. I am still your little girl, and you will always be the greatest dad. I love you and will always be there for you, like you have always been there for me.

Your naughty daughter, (name)

17. An affectionate letter from a loving daughter

My Loving Dad,

I am fortunate to have such an awesome father. I love you for the encouragement, comfort, and guidance. You are not just my dad, but my best friend , coach, and hero. You have showered me with endless love and gave me strong support. Everything means a lot to me.

You are a man of values and a strong and caring father. Thanks for giving me such beautiful memories. I cannot love anyone more than you.

Love you loads, (name)

18. Father’s day letter

My Handsome Pa,

As a father, you have done everything for me. You have overlooked all my mistakes and saw the best in me that others couldn’t. We have shared a special bond all these years, and I am glad that nobody else could have given me the guidance, inspiration, and support you have given me.

You are a thoughtful and warm father, who even gets tough when you have to teach me discipline. I cannot express more in words what I feel about you. For me, you are the precious gem of my life. Happy Father’s Day, Papa! I love you so much.

Miss you, (name)

19. A sorry letter from a faraway son

I have realized very late how important you were to building my life. I did not thank you enough back then. You are my first superhero, first role model, and first everything.

At times, I fought with you and was rude to you. I am extremely sorry for hurting you with my harsh words. Still, you never gave up on me and helped me in every possible way to send me to a foreign land to pursue my education.

Now, when I am living alone, I know what I am missing the most. It is you, Dad. I miss you every moment of my life and regret not being with you. Thank you for giving me the strength and wisdom to overcome hurdles and for being so patient with me.

I am coming very soon to hold your hands again and to give you a warm hug.

Your loving son, (name)

20. A letter remembering an incident

Do you remember the day we almost had a crash? I cannot forget that incident.

It was a chilly winter night, and we were heading home after you picked me from a party. The roads were blocked, you were going slow, and we were enjoying our favorite rock music. Suddenly, the car started gliding into the trees and the woods.

Within a fraction of seconds, you steered the car, and we escaped the ditch. Your presence of mind impresses me till date. You protected me without worrying about your hand that was twisted badly. That’s when I realized how special you are to me. And now I know how a father should be.

21. A sweet and warm letter

It is my humble plea to you, don’t be embarrassed at me as I’m writing this letter to share my feelings. I know we have a strong bond, and I can tell you anything. But I think these are a few feelings that I cannot express in person.

Even without telling you, you always know when something is wrong. Even with my smallest achievements, you are proud of me. Even when you have no money, you do your best to get me gifts. Even when you are busy, you call me to ask how I am.

How can you be soft and strong at the same time? Nobody can be a better father than you. I love you so much, Pa, and I miss you. Please visit me whenever you can.

Yours (name).

22. An admiration letter from a daughter

I am so grateful to have a blessed figure as my father. I admire you, Daddy, for everything. You have been an influential figure in my life. You have helped me set goals, and you guide me to achieve them. I appreciate your determination.

I look up to you, and I want to be like you. You have always taken the path less traveled, and I am totally inspired by that. I hope I also become a person like you—a humble person who can cook, fix anything, and be patient. Your intelligence and knowledge are what I am most proud of.

Your humor makes me laugh, and your protection makes me feel safe. Your love brings our family together. Not just me, but mom too loves you for being the father you are. Thank you for the shelter, food, education, and love you have given me.

You have always motivated me to do things that I thought I never could. Your family values will be transferred even to my children, and I promise you that. My children are also blessed to have a grandfather like you.

We all love you so much , (name and grandchildren’s names).

21. A letter from a traveler son

We went on adventures right from when I was little. Some were boring (just kidding!). They were the best adventures of my life. You used to take me in the car, without any plans, and we had so many special episodes. Back then, I did not know our unplanned destinations and trips would inspire me so much to explore different parts of the world.

It is you who guided me to do what I love the most. And now, all those traveling lessons have made me a professional traveler. I have seen so many beautiful countries and want to visit more. The next time I come home, I want you to come along with me. Yes, no plans, just hitting the road, like the old times.

See you soon, Love you (name)

24. Letter to a traveling dad from a six-year-old

I hope you are doing well. Mom says you are very busy at work and also that you are an achiever. I am very proud of you, Daddy!

I am also doing well at school. I have learned how to read and write some new words. Teachers give me stars every time I do well. I also made some new friends. We play soccer and video games together. They are all hilarious.

I am learning to do some chores at home. I help Mom do the dishes and laundry. I also take care of my new puppy. Her name is Fluffy. She is charming and playful. I am sure you will love her as much as I do. Here is a picture of her that I drew.

Daddy, I can’t wait to see you again. When are you coming home? I have a lot of things to tell you and lots to show you, too. I miss you, and I love you very much!

Yours lovingly, Your son (name)

25. Father’s day wishes from an eight-year-old

Dad, you are so funny, and you always make me laugh. You teach me many things, from chess to biking and math. You help me with my homework and projects. You are so brave. You always protect me from the bad things in my dreams. I love how you hug me and play with me whenever you get home from work. You even listen to all my stories and recitations from school. I also love every weekend dad-daughter outing we have. I love going to the park, the zoo, the movies, and the ice cream shop with you. I love all my birthday gifts—books, toys, and clothes. Thank you for making me feel special, Dad.

You are my hero and my friend. I want to be like you when I grow up. Thank you for being the best dad ever! I hope you have a great day today. Happy Father’s Day!

I have made you a card and a cake. I hope you like them. I love you! Yours, (name)

26. A ‘get well soon’ letter to Dad

It pains me to see you so frail because I have always believed you to be unbreakable. I regret that you must endure such suffering. I also hope that you soon feel well. I constantly have you in my mind and my prayers.

You are the best dad in the whole world. You have always cared for and stood by me in good times and bad. You are my beacon of hope and the one I constantly admire. For someone so strong, brave, and healthy, I am sure you can overcome every hurdle you encounter, including this illness.

Dad, I miss your hearty laughter and strong hugs. I also miss the morning jogs and the impromptu guitar jam sessions. I am eager to see you back in action. I love you, Dad! Please take your medications as directed by your doctor. Consume a lot of water and eat a balanced diet.

I hope you get well soon, Dad. Since I can’t hug you in this fragile state, consider this letter my warmest hug to help you heal.

With love, (name)

27. Birthday wishes from Son

As you celebrate another year of life, I want to express how much you mean to me. You are the one who has shaped me into the person I am today. As a father, your knowledge and wisdom have always guided me on the right path. As a friend, you have always been my kindest confidant and non-judgemental partner-in-crime.

Father, you continue to inspire me every day, and I hope to be a similar father to my children someday. May this day be filled with joy and love, just like the happiness you bring to my life. Happy Birthday!

With love, Yours, (name)

28. A letter of encouragement

In times of doubt, you have always been my guiding light. During difficult times, your strength has been my refuge. You have shown me that one can overcome any obstacle with determination and a positive attitude. Your belief in me has given me the confidence to pursue my dreams.

On this day, I would like to return the favor. I recognize that you are finding it difficult to adjust to this shift, but I also know that no one else could handle it better. I understand you miss Mom. I grieve for her passing, too! Yet, as you frequently remind us, life must go on.

Dad, it’s time for you to go out and explore the world like you both have always planned on doing. Carry her in your heart, and she will be with you even while you are worlds apart. Dad, your presence in my life is a constant source of strength. And I think it is high time you became your source of inspiration.

With love and gratitude, (your name)

29. Letter to Dad from a soldier

Greetings father,

I hope this letter finds you in good health and spirits. I received your letter, and I would like to tell you that I also miss you all. And thank you for your thoughtful gift. It reminded me of every childhood memory, from fishing to riding bikes and going on adventure trips every time you came home from the border.

Father, despite our distance, you have been my friend and hero. You are the reason I gained the inspiration to join the force. I am doing my best and giving my all towards serving our country and protecting our freedom. I have done well enough to earn myself an important mission. I might be out of reach for a while now, so before I depart, I would like to thank you for giving me the best life growing up and making me who I am. I have the strength and courage to carry out my duties well because of you.

Do convey my regards to Mom and my sisters and tell them I appreciate their efforts towards trying to send me the Christmas cake. It wasn’t successful, but I appreciate the effort nonetheless.

Wishing you well, Your son (name)

30. A Thanksgiving letter

As it’s said, Thanksgiving is a time to express gratitude; on this day, I wish to express my appreciation. Daddy, thank you for the warmth and love you’ve always provided. Our family gatherings have been a testament to the love and unity you’ve nurtured within our home.

The sacrifices you’ve made for our family are immeasurable. Your selflessness and unwavering support have always been the most significant influence on my life.

As I reflect on my life’s journey, I also see your immeasurable impact on my character and values. Thank you for being my moral compass. And for all the memories we’ve created thus far.

With heartfelt thanks, (your name)

31. A letter of nostalgia

I write this letter as a way to revive some old memories. I was going through some old photographs today, and I felt a wave of nostalgia wash over me. I saw pictures of us from when I was a kid. It brought back memories of all our vacations, birthday celebrations, and game days. It refreshed my brain with the times when we laughed and hugged.

Then, I saw pictures of your younger self, from when you had hair and a toothy grin and wore those funny clothes. I saw pictures of Mom from when she was alive. It made me recall how beautiful she was and how she loved us with all her heart. I also recalled how happy the two of you used to be and the infectious laughter that kept echoing around our house.

Those photographs made me feel happy, sad, proud, and nostalgic at the same time. I am flooded with memories of all the good times we had together and all the memories we made. It has filled me with gratitude for everything you have done and sacrificed for me. And I just want to say I hold you in great respect for being the best parent ever! I hope this letter brings you tears of joy and happy smiles.

I love you, Dad. Yours, (name)

32. A letter of appreciation

I received news from Mom that you had led a workplace project to great success and have been awarded a promotion. I am so proud of you, Dad. Congratulations!

I know how hard you’ve worked to reach this point in your career. You have overcome many challenges and obstacles along the way. And have always been a hard-working, dedicated, and talented person.

You have never given up on your dreams and goals. You have continually strived for excellence and innovation in your field, delivering outstanding results that have impressed your clients and colleagues. I am aware that you are a great leader and an excellent mentor. You have always been an inspiration and a role model to your subordinates. I’m so happy that you are reaping the fruits of your labor.

Cheers, Dad, and congratulations once again!

Yours proudly, (name)

33. A letter wishing Dad well on his retirement

I have seen you work tirelessly for years now. You have put days and nights together to provide for me and our family. You have worked hard and achieved a lot. You have left a positive impact in your field. You have been a respected and admired professional.

You have also been a supportive husband, loving father, and great employee. You have always provided me with the best education and opportunities. You have always loved and cared for me through your best and worst days.

Alas, now that you have reached the point of retirement, I am so excited for you. You have earned it.Congratulations, Dad! May this retirement be a well-deserved break after your long and successful career. I hope you have a lot of fun exploring new places. And pursue your hobbies and passions. May you also spend quality time with us all.

Wishing you good health and total relaxation,

Your son/daughter

34. A letter of congratulations

Congratulations! I am overjoyed and thrilled to share that you have become a grandparent. You have always been a wonderful and loving father to me. And now you have a new role and joy in your life. You are the grandfather of a beautiful and healthy baby boy or girl. You have a new generation to love and cherish and a legacy to pass on.

I am pretty sure you will be an amazing and caring grandfather. And will teach and guide your grandchild like you did with me. I can’t wait to see you and introduce you to your grandchild. I am sure you will have fun playing with the baby and pampering them with lots of gifts.

Yours, super excited, (name)

35. A long-time pending apology letter

I hope you are doing well. I am writing this letter because there’s something from our past that has been weighing on my heart for a while now. I believe it’s high time I express my sincere apologies.

Do you remember that childhood prank I played on you? It was the one where I threw a lit match stick on a bunch of firecrackers. I had no idea my innocent intention to laugh would result in such a fright. The shock, anger, and fear in your eyes at the aftermath of it have continued to stay with me throughout the years. I know now that repairing the burnt pool deck must have cost you a lot. I deeply regret my thoughtlessness and the anxiety it must have caused you.

Dad, I want you to know I genuinely apologize for that prank. I have since learned that humor should never come at the expense of someone’s peace of mind. I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me for my immature actions.

With all my love and regret, (your name)

36. Letter down memory lane

I have lately been reminiscing about that unforgettable family vacation we had and decided to revisit the place. Seeing this place now, I wanted to share some of my favorite memories with you. Do you remember the excitement and anticipation that we felt as we packed up the car and set off on that road trip? The promise of new adventures with the family made it all the more special.

One memory that stands out as I feel the warmth of the sun on my face is when we went hiking. The view from the summit was stunning. The sense of accomplishment we felt after reaching the top still makes my heart sing. I also cannot forget the laughter and delicious meals we shared around the campfire. Those marshmallow roasting sessions and s’mores were pure joy.

But my favorite memory was simply spending evenings at the cabin, playing board games and telling stories. It was those moments of togetherness that made the trip so magical. Dad, that vacation holds a special place in my heart because it is the one time we connected on a deeper level. Thank you for being the reason I have such cherished moments. Looking forward to creating more beautiful memories with you in the future.

With love and gratitude, Your son

37. A letter to the dad who adopted you

I’m writing to express my deepest gratitude for adopting and raising me as your own. I know I wasn’t your biological child, but you never made me feel like anything less than yours. I recall asking you why you adopted me when I was little. You always told me it was because you wanted to give me a good home. I didn’t understand it then, but as I get older, I realized how much love and sacrifice it took to adopt me.

I haven’t always been the easiest child to raise, but you have always been patient and understanding. You have supported me through thick and thin and have always believed in me even when I didn’t. You have taught me so much about life, and I am grateful for everything you have done for me. I am so lucky to have you as my dad and my hero. I love you!

Love, Your child

38. Gratitude letter to a supportive dad

I wanted to take a moment to express my heartfelt appreciation for your unwavering support during this tumultuous time. Losing my child was a profound and painful experience for me. Yet, your empathetic presence has been a tremendous source of strength. Thank you for offering me a shoulder to lean on, a listening ear, and a comforting embrace whenever I needed it most.

From the kind words to the countless tasks you took to ease my burden, your ability to provide the support I needed made all the difference. I want you to know that I am deeply grateful for your willingness to share in my sorrow. You are amazing!

Dad, I love you more than words can express. Your unwavering presence has been the crane that has lifted me out of the darkest days of my life. I will always cherish your love and the memories of your comforting embrace. With all my love and gratitude,

Your daughter

39. Letter of gratitude to dad from a queer child

I’m grateful to have you in my life. When I came out to you as queer, your love and support was surprising yet comforting. I know it wasn’t easy for you to hear, but you were so accepting of me. I recall the fear I had felt since the day I found out. I always worried that you would reject me or wouldn’t understand me. But this day, you told me you loved me no matter what when I finally gained the courage to come to you.

I’m so glad that I did. Your acceptance has made me feel self-confident and grateful. I now am more confident that I can always count on you. I also want to thank you for telling me to be proud of who I am and that it’s okay to be different. Your words have stuck with me, and they will significantly help me every time I doubt myself for my queerness.

I’m so lucky to have you as my dad. You’re the best! Thank you for everything.

40. A poetic letter

My Dearest Father,

You’re the chapter filled with laughter and love in the vast book of life. You are painted with hues of wisdom and strength. And as the days pass, I realize that you are the North Star that directs my journey.

Your words are like a soothing lullaby as they cradle me through the nights of uncertainty. Your laughter is the melody that fills every corner of my heart. Your advice is the compass that always points me in the right direction. Your warm embrace is my haven on the worst of days. And finally, your love is the balm that soothes my wounds. Father, you are my hero, confidant, greatest teacher, and best friend. You have been the foundation for my dreams and the wind beneath my wings. I adore you, and I cherish every moment we spend together.

Thank you for everything! Yours (name)

41. A hopeful letter

I know we’ve been estranged for a long time, but I’m hoping we can put the past behind us and start fresh. I sincerely wish for us to celebrate this forthcoming Father’s Day together.

I know I have made many mistakes and hurt you in ways I’m not proud of. But now, I am not the person I was when we last spoke. I have grown up a lot and rectified my erroneous ways. Father, I know that I can’t erase the past, so I am asking for the chance to prove myself to you.

I love and appreciate you very much for always being there for me, even when I didn’t deserve it. Father, I don’t know what the future holds, but I hope to start rebuilding our relationship. I wish we could be a part of each other’s lives again. Please accept my invitation and visit me. Maybe we could go out to dinner like we used to? Or we could just stay home and talk. Whatever you prefer! I miss you, and I just want to spend time with you.

42. Letter from a married daughter

You were my first superhero

And my knight in shining armor.

You taught me how to ride a bike

And showed me how to fly a kite

You held my hand when I was scared

And hugged me close when I was sad.

You have been the best teacher

And a great friend.

You praised me for my efforts and success

And corrected my flaws during failures.

You played games and puzzles with me

And made me laugh with your jokes.

You are the most loving father in my life,

One who has provided for me and supported me.

You filled my childhood with joy and wonder

And inspired me to follow my dreams.

Now, for all this and more, I am grateful!

I love you, Dad, and I miss you!

43. Letter to a Doctor dad

To the best doctor I know,

Dad, you are a man of great renown. Your skills and knowledge are unmatched, and your kindness is even more so. You’ve dedicated your life to helping people and significantly impacted many lives.

Dad, I am proud of you for everything you do. I know your job is often challenging, yet you always do it gracefully and with compassion. No matter what the hour, you are always there for your patients and inspire people with your never-ending dedication. Dad, thank you for everything you do. Happy Doctor’s Day!

With love, Your son

44. A letter of forgiveness

As I woke this morning, I realized I had been lugging around a load that needed to be put down. So, I am writing to tell you that I forgive you! I know your error wasn’t intentional, even though it cut too deeply into the folds of my heart.

I do not wish to lie to you; I was furious. I felt betrayed by you, and I couldn’t understand what pushed you to decide to leave us. Mother was devastated, and the whole family was in shock. But now that I think back, I realize you’re only human. You had had enough and had tolerated more than you could bear to take. You just decided to protect yourself and didn’t intend your self-preserving move to hurt me or the family this way.

I’m still unhappy about what happened, but I forgive you. I know it’s the only way to move forward in life. I love you, Dad. I always have and always will.

Respectfully yours, (name)

45. A letter reminiscing childhood

I suddenly wanted to write about my childhood memories with you while looking at my daughter. I remember that you would always take me to the park, even on days when you were exhausted from work. We would swing on the tires, slide down the tube, and hang around on the monkey bars. You would laugh with me and always have my back. You also taught me how to skate the board, tie my shoes, do my hair, and do my homework. You were always patient with me, even when I couldn’t get it right after several trials and threw tantrums to get things done.

You were always there for me, no matter what. You have been my guide, meteor, and biggest cheerleader. And yes, I will never forget the father-daughter dance at my wedding. You looked so handsome in your tux, and I felt like the luckiest girl in the world as we danced to our favorite song. I wish my daughter could have all these moments with her dad. Regretfully, she can’t. And neither can I anymore, considering you are too old to get out of bed!

I’m so grateful that you were there for me all this way. I love you, Dad. Thank you for everything.

Yours lovingly, (name)

46. A letter of sympathy

In this challenging time, I want to express my heartfelt condolences for the loss of your father. Losing a parent is an indescribable agony, and my heart aches for you. I never knew Grandpa beyond my youth, so I may never fully understand the depth of your bond with him. Yet, I know he played a significant role in shaping your life.

His enthusiasm for traveling the world, his love for adventures, and his historical wisdom have indeed left a mark on your life and, by extension, mine. It is only because of him that I now am an archeologist, and I will be eternally grateful to him for inspiring me.

During this time of grief, please know that you are not alone. Please know that I love you deeply, and I am here to support you through this painful life chapter. Lean on me and let us carry the burden of this grief together. Am sure he is smiling at us from above and wishing for us to find solace in his memories.

With love and sympathy, Your son

47. Letter of reflection

Dearest Father,

As I prepare to enter the phase of fatherhood, I find myself reflecting on your parenting style more in-depth. I have begun to realize your profound impact on my life. Father, your parenting style has always been a unique blend of love, guidance, and freedom. You had a knack for balancing discipline with understanding. You have given me the space to make and learn from my mistakes. You have never been quick to judge or criticize. You always take the time to listen to me and provide me with the guidance I need. You have always led by example and been the epitome of patience, responsibility, and compassion. Your ability to find joy in everyday life has warmed our home.

As I ponder this, I realize that I never really acknowledged the trust and independence you’ve granted me. Nor have I thanked you for the countless moments of genuine connection that we have had. Father, thank you for always being there, cheering me on, no matter what I set my mind to. Your belief in me has given me the confidence to chase my dreams. And your parenting style has instilled in me good values and principles. I am grateful for having a father like you.

With adoration and appreciation, Your daughter.

48. A poet’s love letter to dad

In honor of my loving father,

Dad, you are the golden thread running through my heart. And your love is waved into my life’s fabric from the start. In the symphony of my days, the sound of your laughter is a tune that leads me through life’s complex maze.

Like a light in the darkest night, your wisdom is comforting. My love for you is growing as time goes on, like an endless river that flows on.

You have served as my mentor, my compass, and my idol. And I will always feel comfortable confiding in your aisle. Your embrace is a haven in this vast world. I take comfort and pride in you for caring as much as possible.

So let me tell you, my loving father: I will always adore you. And my love grows like a bird’s feather.

With all my love, Your sweet poet

Frequently Asked Questions

1. Can I include some old memories in my letter to Dad?

Yes, you may talk about your childhood memories or any memorable day or event that occurred in your childhood. It is a great way to bring back old memories, describe them in the letter and cherish them with your Dad.

2. How long should my letter to Dad be?

The letter’s length is unimportant as long as it is written with affection, has a purpose, and precisely expresses your feelings. You are free to write a brief or a longer letter as you desire.

3. Can I apologize to Dad for things in the past in my letter?

Yes, you may use writing a letter as an option to ask for forgiveness if you cannot do it in person. Make sure the letter includes a genuine apology, expresses your regret clearly, and conveys your request for forgiveness.

4. Can I include pictures or drawings in my letter to Dad?

Yes, you may add pictures in your letters to your Dad. The pictures could be anything ranging from the picture of your house, a new plant, or an adorable old picture of you two together.

5. How do I express my gratitude towards Dad in my letter?

You can express gratitude to your Dad by appreciating all the small and big things he has done for you. Using a comforting and assuring tone of warmth, respect, and gratefulness can help you express your feelings of gratitude best.

In this age of text messages, writing a letter to Dad is the best mode of heartfelt communication to express your love and care for him. Avoid writing a missive to your dad lest you want him to fall asleep. Instead, you can start the letter by sharing some pleasant greetings. Address him by the nickname you may have given him. You may tell him how he influenced you and how happy you are to have him in your life. You may personalize the letter by adding a few special memories you had with him. Adding a few lines about his hardship and sacrifices for his family’s well-being could make him happier. You may also tell him how proud you are of being his child. End your letter with words of respectful salutation. Additionally, to make your message more memorable, you can send it through a postcard or as a handmade card. These letters are ideal for sharing on your dad’s birthday, Father’s Day, or any other occasion.

Infographic: Pointers To Add In A Letter To Your Dad

While mothers are the figure of care and love, fathers are strong shields and support systems for the family. So, whether it’s your father’s birthday or any occasion, or you wish to express your feelings to him, sending or writing a handwritten letter will surely make him happy. Check out the infographic below for some pointers you may include in your letter to make it more special for your dad.

Illustration: Momjunction Design Team

Key Pointers

• Writing a letter to your father is a touching way of expressing your feelings and emotions.
• These letters encompass various themes, including apologies, appreciation, gratitude, sharing memories, and offering support.
• Select the most-suited theme and modify your letter to add your unique touch.
• Ensure you maintain a kind, hopeful, warm, and affectionate tone.

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Short Essay on My Father [100, 200, 400 Words] With PDF

Essays on ‘Father’ is a very common English writing comprehension test for many exams. In this lesson today, I will discuss how to write short essays on one of the most important people of our life: Father. 

Short Essay on Father in 100 Words

My father is a kind and caring person. He is my hero. He works hard and takes care of our family. He always motivates me to study well, work hard and chase my dreams. Whenever I am sick, he stays beside me and takes care of me alongside my mother.

My father is a loving husband to my mother and a filial son to his parents. He helps my mother with the household chores and spends a lot of time with my grandparents. He has never differentiated between a son and a daughter and treats me and my sibling equally. On weekends, he takes us out for picnics, movies, and other fun activities. My father is a role model for me. 

Short Essay on Father in 200 Words

My father is an ideal man. He is kind and caring. He works hard and takes care of our family. He is a strong-willed person who doesn’t fear challenges and never gives up. He motivates me to study well and work hard towards my dreams. My father is my best friend. I share all my worries and problems with him and he always comes up with the best solutions. When I am sad, he comforts me and gives me strength. When I am sick, he stays beside me and takes care of me alongside my mother. 

My father is a loving husband and a filial son. He helps my mother with the household work and shares her load. He values her a lot and never fights with her. He also spends a lot of time with my grandparents and takes them to visit their old friends whenever he has time. He also takes us out for family picnics and outings on weekends.

My father has never differentiated between a son and a daughter and treats both me and my sibling equally. He has set an example for us by being an upright, compassionate and genuine human being. He has taught us to be honest, respectful, and kind. My father is my role model and I love him very much. 

Short Essay on Father in 400 Words

My father is the backbone of our family. He is a kind, caring and compassionate person. He is a teacher by profession and is well-respected by his students and colleagues. He works hard and takes care of our family. My father is strong-willed and optimistic. He is not afraid of facing challenges and doesn’t give up no matter how difficult a situation is.

He motivates me to study well and work hard towards my dreams. My father is also my best friend. He listens to whatever I have to say. I can share all my worries and problems with him and he always comes up with the best solutions. When I am not in a good mood, he comforts me. When I am sick, he takes care of me. Even when he returns home tired, he makes sure to sit with us and have a nice talk. 

My father is a generous person. Being a teacher, he has come across many students who want to learn but do not have the financial capacity to support their studies. For them, he has given lessons for free and even helped them financially.

He is very kind to the poor and needy. He helps them and does as much as possible to support them. My father is a helpful person and is always ready to extend a helping hand whenever our neighbours are in some kind of trouble. I am very proud of him. 

My father is an ideal husband and son. He helps my mother with the household chores and shares the load. He values her, listens to her thoughts, ideas and opinions and never fights with her. They always make sure that our home environment is peaceful and harmonious.

My father is also a filial son who spends a lot of time taking care of his parents. He takes my grandparents out to the park and to visit their old friends whenever he has time. On weekends, he takes us out for picnics, movies and other fun activities. When my sibling or I have exams, my father stays up at night to guide us and help us with our studies. 

My father has never differentiated between a son and a daughter and treats both me and my sibling equally. He has taught us to be upright, honest, respectful and kind. He leads by example and has shown us how to be selfless, brave and patient. My father is my role model and I love him dearly. 

Hopefully, from the session above, you have gotten a holistic idea of how you can write short essays on ‘Father’ in a concise form. In this lesson, I have adopted a simplistic approach and easy language to write these essays so that all kinds of students can understand those without any difficulties. If you still have any doubts regarding this session, kindly let me know through some quick comments. 

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Essays About Dads: Top 5 Examples Plus 10 Prompts

Write engaging essays about dads with help from our essay examples about dads, including a handful of topic prompts.

Dads are critical pillars in children’s development. Like moms, their presence, especially in children’s early years, is critical in laying the foundation of their well-being and self-esteem that will determine much of their kids’ adulthood. Some people have great relationships with their dads, while others have complicated or strained relationships, or don’t have contact with them at all.

Being a dad is different from merely being a father in that the former has nurtured a more loving relationship with their kids. Becoming a father is a huge milestone in a person’s life. The child can enjoy their dad’s great sense of humor, fun attitude in life, and loving personality. Whatever your relationship with your dad, you can write a compelling essay to convey your experiences and share your emotions.

5 Essay Examples

1. 10 lessons i learned from my abusive father by suzanna quintana, 2. why some fathers become distant after their child becomes a teen by larissa marulli, 3. gay dads and stigmas by laura ferguson, 4. this veterans day, i’m searching for my dad’s army buddies before it’s too late by judi ketteler, 5. i have never met my dad – making peace with the past by james barnett, 1. my dad is my best friend, 2. spending time with dad, 3. the best lesson i learned from my dad, 4. modern roles of dads, 5. absent dads: a social crisis, 6. single dads on the rise, 7. dads’ rights and obligations in child custody, 8. what makes a responsible dad, 9. my dad: the disciplinarian, 10. becoming a dad.

“Between his rages, verbal abuse, emotional absence, and his way of using guilt and shame as a weapon, the rest of us were kept under control through what I later dubbed Operation Fear, his cold war campaign designed to silence all dissidents and maintain his place as a dictator.” 

The author relates her struggles of breaking free from her father’s encumbering sense of being unloved. Although her struggle lasted into her late adult years, she eventually learned to accept and cherish lessons from her father that helped her become a better parent to her children. You might be interested in these essays about growing up without a father .

“Dad can have a really hard time getting used to his little girl now being a young woman who has romantic interests, and breasts and may no longer be into the things that she and dad used to do together.”

The love of dads has a lasting impact on a child’s disposition and outlook in adulthood. The problem is that some dads tend to be distant once their kids’ transition into teenagers. This essay helps dads preserve their closeness with their children during confusing times. 

“…[G]ay fathers still feel the brunt of stigma, experiences that the researchers linked to states with fewer legal and social protections for gays and their families.”

Years after the legal acceptance of gay marriages, gay dads still endure discrimination. A research study uncovers this and studies influences that continue to perpetuate the discriminating environment.

“It was only in 2019 that my sisters and I discovered all the photographs our dad had taken of his fellow GIs — reading, drinking beer at cafés and tending to their military truck. Some are portraits. Some seem candid. All feel special.”

In this essay, book author Ketteler talks about her nostalgic adventure to learn more about her veteran father’s life at the barracks. This journey starts after uncovering old photos of his wartime memorabilia wrapped with mystery and brotherly love. 

“If, for whatever variety of reasons, a dad isn’t present, physically or otherwise, then the child must look elsewhere for role models. I see being a role model as part of my life purpose. I need to be the role model that my dad wasn’t there to be for me. I must be what I didn’t have.”

A son who never had someone to call dad pens a letter to his deceased stranger-father. In this letter-essay, he puts out all the difficulties in meeting him only through pictures and never knowing how his life was. Yet, despite the letter appearing as an outpour of outrage, a surprising twist comes up when the essay shifts into a forgiving tone.

10 Compelling Prompts On Essays About Dads

Describe the best side of your father and share with your readers how he fits as your best friend. Talk about the things you like doing together and how he listens to you in times of need. Perhaps you enjoy watching movies together or going on annual trips away together. What are the other things that make you appreciate your father? Answer this question in the main section of your essay. End your essay with a conclusion explaining how a parent and a child can have true bonds of friendship.

Do you and your dad enjoy golf, camping, or hiking? Or do you prefer doing something indoors, like cooking or playing board games? First, write about the activities you and your father enjoy doing together. Then, for a more impactful essay, write about what a day of spending time with your dad looks like and your fondest memory with him.

Like our essay example, we hope you also have important lessons to carry on from your dad, whether by having a loving or complicated relationship with him. Write down the most important lesson your dad has imparted to you. You may have learned essential life skills like cooking or cleaning, self-confidence, or how to be independent. Detail how the lessons you have learned have shaped your perspective in life and what you are striving to do to embody his teachings into your life.

Diverging from the traditional perception of fathers as mainly financial providers, the modern definition of a dad comes in different shapes and sizes. First, enumerate the typical dads existing today — single dads, gay dads, blended households, step dads, and more. Then, find out how they are raising their children and how different are their parenting styles from those of traditional dads. Include interview research in your essay for an interesting and accurate essay.

​​According to the National Fatherhood Initiative , one in four children is without a biological, step, or adoptive father. In this essay, enumerate the adverse effects of fatherlessness on a child’s development. How do these effects influence one’s adulthood? Find research studies to support your answer to this.  

Research from the Pew Research Center has shown that single dads have increased ninefold since the 1960s. Research this trend further and discover what factors drive single men to take on the enormous responsibility of fatherhood on their own. If you know dads who are single fathers by choice, their stories would add more life to your story. Also, tackle the options men have to be single dads, such as surrogacy or adoption, and assistance your state or country offers aspiring single dads. 

According to the World Population Review , about 50% of married couples divorce. When marriages fail, what rights do fathers hold to continue being a father to their children? Find out what these are, along with a father’s obligations and penalties for not fulfilling them. Turn this into an argumentative essay and answer whether these rights and obligations are enough and how they can be expanded to sustain raising a child. 

As modern times drastically change the roles of parents, dads have become more involved in child-rearing. This has allowed dads to nurture more profound relationships with their kids, breaking the image of a distant father who only gets to see his child after work. First, write about the qualities and actions that make a father a responsible dad. Then, add the importance of having responsible dads at home and what society can do to promote responsible fatherhood. 

The image of dads as a disciplinarian has often been perceived negatively. But beyond the punishments, discipline means enabling children to grow up well. In this essay, talk about your dad’s disciplinary techniques. Write about how he corrects bad behavior. Then, cite anecdotes to make your essay more lively. For example, share how your dad responded to a grave mistake you committed. Finally, write down how he punished you and what you learned from this experience.

Interview your father and try to capture his roller coaster of emotions and experiences as a first-time dad. Ask him what he felt like when he first held you in your arms, when you got your first fever and when he first brought you to school. Next, ask him how he is coping with the extraordinary demands of fatherhood financially, physically, and emotionally. Finally, ask him to give soon-to-be fathers a few words of wisdom. Share these experiences in your essay and describe your take on these emotions.

For more writing guidance, our explainer on grammar and syntax can help you write better essays. 

If you need help picking your next essay topic, check out our 20 engaging essay topics about family . 

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Essay on My Father in 250 Words, 500 Words

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A father is a pillar of strength and wisdom in a child’s entire life. He shapes their character and values in numerous ways. His selfless support, guidance, and love he provides always prove to be an indelible mark on a child’s entire journey. In this blog, we will provide different samples to write about my father. You can learn and save these samples for your future projects.

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Essay on My Father in 250 Words

My father is a pillar of strength and wisdom, he holds a special place in my heart. His influence on my life cannot be turned into words. He is everything to me, right from the source of motivation, and inspiration to a guiding light in my entire life journey. His dedication to our family is commendable. He literally works all day and sometimes night too, just to give us a better lifestyle. He strives every single minute to provide us with everything that we deserve at the cost of his own desires. He is just selflessly committed to our happiness. 

His work ethic is a source of valuable lessons for me. His early childhood education gave me lifelong lessons and teachings that he just serves on a plate before us can be hard to understand but are fruitful enough to bless our entire lives with the best of all. Whether we talk about his advice on facing challenges, making ethical decisions, or simply navigating the complexities of life, he has been a super savior for the entire family life long. A true example of unconditional love is a father in any child’s life. He can be bitter at times but can be sweet as sugar too. He can even fight with you to keep you on the right track and protect you from any hurdles that may come your way. 

Right from the source of happiness to a bundle of motivation, he is everything to the entire family. A father is like a shield in this melting weather, nobody can harm his child if he is there. 

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Essay on My Father in 500 Words

A father has a unique place in our hearts and lives. He is my protector, provider, and role model. In my entire life, my father has been playing all these roles without even complaining a single time or even without crying or getting upset. His only and foremost motivation is our smiling faces, fulfilled needs, and a decent lifestyle. He goes to work every morning and returns home in the evening with something to eat for us constantly without fail. He bought us new clothes every Diwali but never got himself even a pair of new shoes. His presence and influence have shaped me the who I am today, fearless, respectful, and independent. 

From my early childhood days, I recall his comforting presence, that if he was there no negative energy could even come close to me or nobody could do any harm to me. Right from teaching me how to walk to teaching me how to ride a bicycle, my father has been an unwavering support for me. He always stands with me whenever I need his help, he guides me well during my challenging time. His unshook confidence in me and my capabilities gives me the strength to achieve my dreams and make him proud of myself. 

Out of many one of the most remarkable qualities of my father is his wisdom. His life experiences and enriched understanding of the world have been a source of learning all throughout my life. I have never seen him crying, or getting weak. He always stays strong shares positive ora with everybody in the family and stays a one-stop solution to all our problems. My father’s work ethic is another aspect of his character that I deeply admire. He has always believed in the value of hard work and dedication. Witnessing his commitment to providing for our family has given me a strong work ethic. I have learned that success is not merely the result of talent or luck but rather a result of constant effort and determination.

My father’s love for learning has left a deep impact on me. He is a seeker of knowledge for me. His curiosity and enthusiasm for discovering new things have inspired me so much in my own educational journey. Also, these factors have made a great impact on my personal growth. He has taught me that learning is a lifelong journey and that knowledge is the only way to deal with all the complex situations of life. Apart from his wisdom and values, my father carries a great sense of humor. His ability to find joy and laughter in everyday situations has taught me not to take life too seriously. His laughter and humor have been a source of comfort during challenging times. I love the way he softly balances family and life, even though it pushes so many difficult situations in front of him. He never broke, instead, he gets stronger and responsible enough to handle these things, so that the bad situations do not reach out to us.

Introduce a reflective introduction, develop the body, and be reflective while you are writing an essay on your father.

A father plays a very vital role in anyone’s life, he is a strong foundation of love, respect, and sacrifice.

Hence, we hope that this blog has assisted you in comprehending what a essay on a father must have. For more such essays, check our category essay writing .

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Essay on My Dad: Check Short and Long Essay on My Father in 100, 200, and 500 Words

Fathers are known to be an ideal for their kids and it is surely true for many people. While there is a lot of praise for the mother of a child, a father plays an equally important role in a child’s development and well-being. Here, we present an essay on dads so that kids can use this as a reference to express their thoughts and feelings for their fathers.

Essay on My Dad 100 Words

Essay on my dad 200 words, essay on my dad 500 words.

We all talk about every relationship but often forget to praise our dads. Today, I want to talk about my dad, my hero and my support system. My dad is the most disciplined person I met and he prefers a quite simple life. By profession, my dad is a businessman and works very hard for our family. He taught me various things such as we should always stick with the truth, never lie to parents, study well, and other things. He taught me to respect everyone and not to lie. He is truly an inspiration, I’m proud to be his son.

I love my dad, he is the one who takes care of me and my family. I saw him doing all the hard work to our family happy. He is funny, serious, and has a jovial nature which makes our house a home. I adore my father, he always tries to fulfil all our needs. He always kept an open and very safe environment for our family. I have never seen my dad misbehaving with anyone. My dad always encourages me to do better in sports and studies. He is just not a regular individual, he is an inspiration to me.

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His perspective and personality have shaped me as a good person. I can talk to my dad about anything without the fear of being scolded or punished. It is one of the most important things that helped me bond with my father. He loves animals, especially cows and dogs, and sometimes he finds time to take care of stray animals. He is a fantastic mentor and a loving father. My dad taught me many valuable lessons, such as working hard and kindness. He is a role model for me and helped me grow as a person. I am grateful to have him in my life.

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Everyone says that their father is different, and so do I. My dad is the one who taught me various things including discipline, hard work, honesty, and others. He is truly a person to look for, I learned a lot from him. The kindness he shows to the world made me believe in helping people. He is my source of inspiration and knowledge. He also helps me in completing my school and tuition homework. Whenever I find any difficulty in my studies, he is always there to help me. My dad is the best person I have ever met, and I’m delighted to have him.

He has been my strongest supporter in all my tough and good times. Whenever I feel low or down, he always cheers me up with love and energy with his small inspiring stories. I know he is a caring man, and I want to be like him. He never scolded me for anything, instead, he taught me what I should not do. I wanted to be a guitarist and my father is the one who supported me a lot. He also found a guitar tutor for me, he has always been very supportive of my dreams and goals.

Trustworthy

My dad is a straightforward and trustworthy person and that is why I always ask for his advice. Every time he comes up with a unique approach to solve the problem. He teaches me hard things very easily. My father is an engineer and works for a big company, I saw him going to the office early in the morning and coming late at night. Still, he tries to find time for me and always asks how my day went and what I learned. Every Sunday we go to the mall and play car racing and other games.

Best Friend

He always wins the race, but I never let him win the bike race games. My dad is an active person and plays a lot of games with me. He brings a lot of chocolates, toys, picture books, and comic books for me. During my winter and summer vacations, he took us on long weekend trips. We used to go to hill stations and have a lot of fun with family and friends. He is a nice person and respects everyone equally. He taught me how to be kind to everyone and always be honest. My dad is my best friend and a superhero in my life.

Responsible

My dad respects his parents and takes care of them. He is a responsible person, it's my father who wants to see everyone together and happy. He always tries to help his people who are in need, especially old people. My dad says, to be thankful to god for what we have. He is a spiritual person and practices his religion devotedly. I can proudly say I have the best father in the world. He is my role model and if I could become like him I believe my life would be sorted.

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My Father My Hero Essay for Students and Children

500+ words essay on my father my hero.

My Father is not just an inspiration to me but every people around us. In addition, to being a good father he is also a good husband, an obedient son, and for everyone else, he is a humble and polite man.

Furthermore, he treats everyone equally and does not do any type of discrimination with anyone. He is famous in all our relatives and neighborhood and everyone talks highly about him as he helps everyone in need. Also, for advice also people seek him as he has a solution to every problem.

Ready to Help Others

As we have seen in the movies that the hero is very popular in his locality so do my father because he is ready to help everyone at any time. I remember a recent incident when one of his colleagues and friend fall ill and needed help then my father wholeheartedly supported him and his family. My father helped them in the most critical times when they needed help.

In addition, he also arranged for finances for them. As at that time they are not financially stable and his colleagues are the only earning member of the family. Also, he spends an hour in the hospital to complete the formalities and arranging the medicine.

Besides, my father many of his other colleagues also contributed money and other means to help the family of ill. After the complete recovery of the colleague he and his family visited our home and especially thanked my father for his efforts and help. After that incident whenever I think of that incident I feel proud of him. I learned this willingness to help others from him.

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Striking Balance in Life

My father has other qualities too he also hard working and punctual and dedicated to his work and often work late hours. But for this, he never compromises his time with family. Besides, in the office and among our relatives everyone appreciates him for his hard work. 

Also, during his college and school day is was among the top performer and won many awards. In his office often announced as the employee of the month. Besides, there were times when I have seen him working late at hours even on holidays. He knows how to maintain his professional and personal life and that’s the thing I love most about him.

Many of my friend’s complaint that their father does not look after them because of their work. Also, they even said that they hate their father because he often comes late and doesn’t love them. Besides, I am lucky that my father is different from them as he gives importance to his family first and after that work.

In addition, he makes sure to come at a time and give time to us (his family). He is a caring husband and helps our mother in small household work to share her workload.

To conclude, my father is a responsible man who clearly knows that between work and family; family comes first. Also, he is always ready to help others no matter what he is doing. Besides, he completely dedicated to his work but does not ignore us in the event. Above all, we stay put to him as we have learned all our good deeds from him.

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List of essays on my father, essay on my father – my role model and my friend (essay 1 – 500 words), essay on my father – for kids and children (essay 2 – 750 words), essay on my father – long essay for school students (essay 3 – 800 words).

Audience: The below given essays are exclusively written for school students (Class 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5 Standard).

Introduction:

My father is my hero and guide in my life. He is the one I look upon whenever I find myself in trouble. My father has been my guiding force for all my major decisions in life. In fact, I have never regretted adhering to his advice as it has always worked for me. He is a hardworking and passionate person. My father has a love for movies. Whenever he gets time, he just loves to watch an old movie. In fact, at times we just fight as to who gets control of the television. But at heart, we love to tease each other and play as well.

My father does not like to sit idle. At times, on holidays if he finds me and my sister doing nothing and just idling our time, he gives us some task or the other. He is also much organised and keeps all his documents in a properly organised manner.

My Father – My Role Model:

My father is my role model for many reasons. First and foremost I admire his passion for work. That is why he is so respected in his office as well. He is always there to help his colleagues even if it is not his work. In fact, one can always see him spending weekends helping others out. Moreover, my father is a simple man. He does not like expensive things and lives an easy and peaceful life. Also, he never shouts on anyone of us. I wonder if he ever gets angry on anything as he takes everything so calmly and takes his time to decide upon things.

My Father – My Friend:

My father is my friend as well. I can discuss everything with my father, even those that I dare not speak in front of my mother. I know that he shall keep it a secret and give the advice I need. He is the one whom I can rely upon blindly during any hour of need, and I know that he shall be there for me.

Importance of My Father in My Life:

My father plays an important role in the family. He is in fact considered as the head of the family. However, I feel that both father and mother have a distinctive role to play in bringing up their children. While on hand my mother has s soft heart, it is my father who shows courage and strength which his children will later on imbibe as their qualities. He can be firm at times, but be rest assured it is always for the benefit of the children.

Conclusion:

There is no doubt that my father’s role is vital in my life. His presence is vital for maintaining the balance and peace in my family. A father is the one who earns the badge of the stricter parent and whose denial of permission for anything means a lot to the children. I also admire my father and try to imbibe his qualities so that I become like him when I grow up.

My father is a person who takes care of my family and loves each one of us dearly. My father acts as the pillar of support and strength for my family.

My father is the person that I admire the most in my life. I can never forget all the childhood memories that I have with him. It is safe for me to say that my father is largely the reason behind my present joy and happiness. I can say that I am the person who I am today and the person that I am growing to be, is all because of the influence he has had and is having on me. He always makes time to play with me and catch up on all the happenings in my life even after the hard work of the day.

My father is one man who is very unique and different. I always feel lucky anytime I remember that he is my father knowing how he has done the very best for me in life. I always feel grateful that I have the opportunity to be his son and be a part of a wonderful family that has a great father like him. My father has shown himself to be a very peaceful and polite person. He seldom scolds me and he is always easy with me. What he tries to do is that he makes sure that I realise the mistake that I have made in a very polite way and helps me to get better and this has been working like magic for many years now.

My father is the leader and head of our family. He is always there for every member of the family to help us in times when we need his advice and direction in taking decisions. Anytime we have a problem, we take it to him, he tries to help us by sharing some of the problems that he also faced in the past that are quite similar to our problem and how he was able to overcome them. He also shares all of his achievements and drawbacks in life and tells us to learn from them.

My father has his personal online marketing business but he never insists any of his children to pursue a career in that same field so that we can take over after him. He does not even try to attract any of us to his business but he tries to teach how we can discover our own passion and fields of interest in life. He does his best to encourage us in the pursuance of our various dreams. I can boldly say that my dad is a very good dad and this is not as a result of him always helping me and being nice to me but because he shows great strength, knowledge, a good helping and nice nature. He also owns very good human relations skills.

My father’s parents were very poor when he was growing up but with hard work and patience, my father was able to become very rich. He uses this as an example to encourage me to always work hard.

I share all of my happy, sad and bad moments with him and he also does the same. He is always around to share with me all of his life experiences and how I can learn from them. My father also tells me all about his day and every event that occurred during the day. He is doing all his best to ensure that I grow up to become a very successful person that has good character and behaviour.

My father always teaches me ethics, humanity and etiquettes of life that can help me in future. My father is always ready and willing to help the people who are needy around us and he tells us that giving is the most important thing in life. My father also teaches my siblings and me how to be happy, healthy and fit throughout our lives.

My father has shown himself to be very good to all the members of my extended family. If anyone of us is facing a particular problem, my father is usually the first person we go to for advice and help. My father has over the years proven to be a person who has a very kind heart and I can boldly say that he is my best friend and my hero.

About My Father:

Appa was born in Coimbatore, the second son and third child in a family of 11 children. His father, my grandfather was a stern man, a respected civil engineer who worked for the colonial British government.

Appa attended the Rishi Valley School in Yercaud, founded on the learning philosophy of Jiddu Krishnamurthy. There he learned the value of discipline, respect for hard work, honesty, responsibility and constant learning. He studied electrical engineering at Banaras Hindu University and went on to join Voltas Limited’s air conditioning division. He worked there the rest of his life, and was regarded as brilliant and a genius.

My childhood memories of him are as a stern, strict and not very communicative man. He’d crack the most unhumorous Dad jokes and we’d all grimace and laugh dutifully.

He felt a deep and abiding sense of responsibility towards his own family of birth as well as his marital family. The modest salary he always earned would be divided between these two families, and since he was terrible at currying favour or promoting himself, he never rose within the ranks of Voltas and his income remained quite pathetic till he died. This officially made us a lower-middle class family and our childhoods were frugal, thrifty and austere. A little money meant a lot.

Despite these constraints, Appa planned our futures successfully. When his provident funds were released after his retirement, he used the entire amount, augmented by a bank loan, to buy a house in his two sons’ names. For the rest of our lives, we had a roof over our heads.

Why I like my father:

One of the most remarkable things about Appa was the number of things he was interested in. In Calcutta, he would spend hours outside a tailor’s shop watching him make clothes. After several months, he bought himself a Singer sewing machine. From then, all our clothes, including winter school uniforms, were stitched by him.

He taught himself carpentry — and constructed the sofa sets we used for decades.

He learned dry cleaning — and from then, we would go to school smelling of kerosene in winter.

He was an outstanding cook, and loved cooking. When my mother was immobilized with lymphatic TB, he’d cook breakfast, lunch and dinner for the family in the morning before leaving for work.

Best of all, he was a brilliant musician, gifted in playing the vichitra veena. He had his own Carnatic ‘band’ with a flutist and a mridangam player.

Things I Learned from My Father:

I have slowly realised how much of who I am was shaped by who he was. Like him, I never get bored, and remain fascinated by everything in life. I’m constantly active doing something constructive or educational. I am today two years younger than he was when he died but have started learning to play piano, understand search engine optimisation, UX design and painting.

I learned from him that generosity is a state of mind, not a state of wallet. The number of nameless, faceless poor people he had helped was long, as we learned only after he died. Never demeaning his beneficiaries with a handout, he invited them to repay at their time and speed, but made sure that they did, thus restoring their self-respect.

Without ever speaking about it, he has shown me what it means to be a father, and the meaning of selfless living.

A single incident sums up my relationship with my dad. He wanted me to join the IIT and become an engineer. I wanted to be a writer, a profession he disdained as having no future. Headstrong, in 1969, I stepped out of the train in which my family was relocating from Delhi to Bombay just as the whistle blew. I was bent on living my life my way.

My father, deeply upset, cut me off without a paisa, saying I could jolly well support myself if I was so confident about writing. And so I did, earning enough through writing for the evening papers to pay my rent, college fees and food. Six months later, my father, passing through Delhi in December, visited me to check how his strong-headed son was doing, and saw for himself that I was surviving well enough without borrowing or begging. He visibly swelled with pride.

He hugged me, in one action forgiving me but also forgiving himself. He used the 400 rupees he had received as a Christmas bonus to buy me utensils, a mattress, and other basics.

From that day, he would proudly say, “My son followed his heart rather than my head — and see what a fine job he has done.”

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Introduction.

My dad is my hero. He is the person I admire the most because of his qualities like kindness, courage, and hard work.

His Kindness

Dad is the kindest person I know. He always helps people without expecting anything in return. His kindness inspires me.

His Courage

My dad is brave. He faces obstacles with courage, teaching me to be fearless and confident.

His Hard Work

Dad works hard to provide for our family. He never complains, showing me the value of hard work.

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The epitome of heroism.

My father, the embodiment of resilience and compassion, has always been my hero. His life and actions have been a beacon, guiding me through the labyrinth of life. His heroism isn’t defined by extraordinary feats but by his everyday actions and unwavering commitment to his values.

Resilience in Adversity

My father’s resilience in the face of adversity is nothing short of heroic. He grew up in an impoverished household, yet he managed to break free from the shackles of poverty through sheer determination and hard work. His journey from a small-town boy to a successful entrepreneur is a testament to his indomitable spirit.

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His compassion is another aspect that makes him my hero. He has always been a pillar of support for the less fortunate. His philanthropic efforts, though not widely recognized, have touched many lives. He taught me that true heroism lies in empathy and kindness, not just courage and strength.

A Guiding Light

His actions and principles serve as my compass, guiding me in my decisions and actions. His humility despite his accomplishments, his respect for all regardless of their status, and his unwavering integrity are the traits I strive to emulate.

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Every child looks up to someone as they grow up, someone who is their pillar of strength, their source of inspiration. For me, that person has always been my dad. To me, my dad is not just a parent, but a hero in the truest sense of the word.

My Dad, The Provider

My dad has always been the primary provider for our family. He has worked tirelessly to ensure that we have everything we need. His dedication to his work, his unwavering commitment to his responsibilities, and his willingness to sacrifice his own comfort for our happiness are traits that I deeply admire. He has taught me the value of hard work, perseverance, and determination. He has shown me that success is not handed to us on a silver platter, but is earned through sweat and tears.

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As a guide, my dad has been instrumental in shaping my values and beliefs. He has always encouraged me to think critically, question everything, and never settle for mediocrity. He has instilled in me a love for learning, a passion for knowledge, and a curiosity that drives me to explore and understand the world around me. His wisdom, his insights, and his guidance have been invaluable in helping me navigate the complexities of life.

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In times of difficulty, my dad has always been there to support me. He has been my rock, my anchor, providing stability and reassurance when I needed it most. Whether it was a difficult exam, a challenging project, or a personal setback, my dad has always been there to offer his advice, lend his support, and help me find the strength to overcome. His unwavering faith in my abilities has given me the confidence to face any challenge that comes my way.

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In conclusion, my dad is my hero because he embodies the qualities that I admire and aspire to have. He is a provider, a guide, a supporter, and a role model. He has shaped me into the person I am today and continues to inspire me to be the best version of myself. To me, my dad is not just a parent, but a hero in the truest sense of the word.

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Today, we’re going to talk about someone super special – dads! Dads are superheroes in real life. They’re strong, kind, and always there to protect us. Have you ever noticed how your dad gives the best bear hugs or tells the funniest jokes? Dads are like our own personal cheerleaders, cheering us on in everything we do. Whether it’s teaching us how to ride a bike, helping with homework, or playing games together, dads are always by our side. They work hard to make sure we have everything we need and love us unconditionally. So, let’s take a moment to appreciate all the amazing things our dads do for us every day.

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• My father is my hero, always there to lend a helping hand.
• With his strong arms and gentle heart, he guides me through life’s twists and turns.
• His laughter fills our home with warmth, making every moment brighter.
• From teaching me to ride a bike to cheering me on at my games, he’s my biggest supporter.
• His wisdom and advice are like treasures, guiding me towards the right path.
• Even on the toughest days, his love remains unwavering, a constant source of strength.
• He sacrifices so much for our family, always putting our needs before his own.
• In his presence, I feel safe and secure, knowing he’ll never let me falter.
• His dedication to providing for us inspires me to work hard and chase my dreams.
• Above all, my father’s love is the greatest gift I could ever ask for, shaping me into the person I am today.

My father is my hero, my role model, and my rock. He is a pillar of strength and wisdom in my life, always there to support me through thick and thin. From a young age, I have looked up to him with admiration and respect, inspired by his unwavering dedication to our family and his tireless work ethic.

One of the things I admire most about my father is his selflessness. He always puts the needs of our family above his own, working long hours to provide for us and ensure that we have everything we need. Despite the challenges he faces, he never complains or seeks recognition for his efforts. His quiet determination and resilience in the face of adversity serve as a constant source of inspiration for me.

My father possesses a wealth of knowledge and experience that he generously shares with me. Whether it’s teaching me practical skills like fixing a leaky faucet or imparting valuable life lessons about integrity and perseverance, he is always willing to lend a helping hand and offer guidance. His words of wisdom resonate with me and shape the way I navigate the world, instilling in me a sense of responsibility and empathy towards others.

Beyond his practical skills and wisdom, my father has a heart of gold. He is compassionate, caring, and always ready to lend a listening ear or a comforting hug when I need it most. His unconditional love and support create a safe haven for me, where I feel accepted and cherished for who I am. The bond we share is unbreakable, built on trust, respect, and mutual understanding.

In conclusion, my father is not just a parent; he is my confidant, mentor, and best friend. His presence in my life has shaped me into the person I am today – resilient, compassionate, and driven. I am grateful for all that he has done for me and aspire to embody the same values of hard work, selflessness, and love that he exemplifies every day. My father is truly a blessing in my life, and I cherish every moment spent in his company.

My father is not just a parent; he is my best friend. His presence in my life is like a beacon of strength and wisdom, shaping me into the person I am today. From his selfless dedication to our family to his unwavering support and love, my father embodies the qualities of a true hero. Growing up, I have always looked up to my father as a source of inspiration and motivation. His hard work and sacrifice to provide for our family have been nothing short of remarkable. Despite the challenges he faces, he never wavers in his commitment to ensuring our well-being and happiness. His work ethic and resilience serve as valuable lessons for me, instilling in me a sense of responsibility and determination.

My father’s love for nature and his dedication to environmental causes have left a lasting impact on me. His passion for plants has transformed our terrace into a beautiful garden, teaching me the importance of caring for the environment and giving back to the community. He involves me in his charitable work, showing me the joy that comes from helping others and making a positive difference in the world. Beyond his practical skills and values, my father’s presence in my life has shaped my character and instilled in me a sense of compassion, respect, and integrity. His quiet strength and unwavering support create a safe space where I feel accepted and loved unconditionally. His guidance and teachings have equipped me with the tools to navigate life’s challenges with grace and resilience.

In conclusion, my father is not just a hero; he is a source of light and inspiration in my life. His selflessness, dedication, and love have made him more than just a parent – he is my role model and my guiding star. As I continue on my journey through life, I am grateful for the lessons he has taught me, the values he has instilled in me, and the unwavering support he provides every step of the way. My father is truly a blessing in my life, and I cherish every moment spent in his company.

Growing up with a father in the military has been a journey filled with challenges, sacrifices, and invaluable life lessons. My father, a courageous soldier who embodies discipline, dedication, and selflessness, has not only served his country with honor but has also been a pillar of strength and guidance in our family. From the moment my father made the decision to join the military, our lives took on a new rhythm. His deployments, frequent moves, and the uncertainties that come with military life became our new normal. Despite the challenges we faced as a military family, my father’s unwavering commitment to his duty and his love for us never wavered. He balanced his military responsibilities with his role as a father, instilling in us the values of resilience, adaptability, and sacrifice.

During his deployments, the distance between us was bridged by letters, care packages, and video calls. My father made sure we never doubted his love and support, even when he was thousands of miles away. His dedication to staying connected with us, despite the challenges of military life, taught me the importance of communication, perseverance, and maintaining strong family bonds. The emotional toll of combat situations and the uncertainties of military life were not lost on our family. However, my father’s resilience in the face of adversity inspired us to stay strong and united. He created a safe space for us to express our fears and worries, reassuring us that we were never alone in facing life’s challenges. His ability to provide stability and security amidst the uncertainties of military life instilled in me a sense of courage and fortitude. My father’s presence in my life has been a source of inspiration and guidance. His discipline and work ethic have shaped my own values and work habits. His selflessness in serving his country while prioritizing his family’s well-being has taught me the importance of balancing responsibilities and staying true to one’s values.

In conclusion, my father’s role as a military dad has been instrumental in shaping my character and worldview. His sacrifices, love, and unwavering support have laid the foundation for me to navigate life’s challenges with resilience, empathy, and determination. As I continue on my own journey through life, I carry with me the lessons learned from my father – a true hero in every sense of the word.

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Who is a father and why is he important.

A father is a male parent who plays a crucial role in a child’s life. He provides guidance, support, and love, shaping the child’s upbringing and character. A father’s presence is essential for a child’s emotional and psychological development.

What qualities make a great father?

A great father possesses qualities like patience, kindness, responsibility, and a sense of humor. He is supportive, understanding, and leads by example, teaching valuable life lessons through his actions and words.

How does a father impact his children’s lives?

A father’s influence extends far beyond providing for his children’s material needs. He serves as a role model, influencing their behavior, values, and aspirations. A positive father-child relationship fosters emotional security and confidence in children.

How can fathers strengthen their bond with their children?

Spending quality time together, engaging in activities they both enjoy, and actively listening to their children’s thoughts and feelings can strengthen the bond between fathers and their children. Open communication and mutual respect are key in nurturing a strong father-child relationship.

What is the importance of celebrating Father’s Day?

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This essay will tell you about my father who is perfect for me.

There is an opinion that perfect dads do not exist, however, I strongly want to disagree with this opinion. Maybe not all the dads are perfect, but mine definitely is. My father is special and everything he does and says is special too. I like the way he dresses, he behaves, he moves and speaks. I am really proud of being his daughter, as I am a small present of a great person he is. Let me describe my father so that you understood how special he is.

When you look at him for the first time, you can think that he wears only classy and formal clothes. However, it is just first glance opinion. When you know my father for a long time you can notice that he feels comfortable in all types of clothes: formal, informal, sportive, cheap, expensive, loose, tight fitting. All these clothes are different, but I like them all as each piece accentuates his life style and his habits. What is more, all his clothes fit his body stature. My dad’s appearance is unique and he knows how to outline it the best way.

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If we start talking about his appearance, it is important to mention that the way he moves and acts reflects his personality a lot. He prefers fast walking to the calm one. I think that his manner to walk quickly shows his desire to catch the time and manage to take the most of his life. He enjoys every part of his wonderful life. Even when he eats you can get jealous of him, as he will eat the simplest dish with such a delight as if it is the most expensive and delicious food in the world. He is happy and thankful for every piece of meal he gets, and he enjoys it.

He usually does not speak while eating, however, when he speaks it is one more story to tell. Communicating with my father, you will be able to notice any emotion and expression he has about the subject he is talking about. When he worries about some issues – he frowns, when he is happy – he smiles. It is easy to read his emotion on his face. It is even more interesting to talk with him when you can observe his face and analyze the feelings he has towards this or that topic.

It is extremely interesting to listen to him. You can always find out some new information, learn something and share your experience with him. I can always rely on my father and I am confident that his opinion is objective. In case I want to get honest opinion of a person who doesn’t care, I would ask my father. His opinion always comes from the bottom of his heart. On the other hand, he knows how to choose the best time for it; he waits for the time when I am calm and relaxed so that I can easily perceive the information. Sometimes there may be a situation that everything goes wrong, and I feel bad. My father can always find right words and give good advice. These moments are important for me because I feel the support, I know that I am not alone, and it gives me confidence.

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My father does not usually show off his feelings a lot. He might be strict and serious when we are out, but I know that he loves me, and I can feel his love in every movement and every sight. He is not used to kissing or cuddling me every day, however, when he does it once a week or so it is clear that these actions are extremely sincere and come from the big heart of my father. Every single time he gives me a cuddle, I feel overwhelmed with love and his attention. And these are the most precious moments of our relationships with my father.

This is my father the way I see him. This is the father I love so much! And it is the only thing that matters! I have the clear understanding that there are no perfect people in the Earth; however, my father is perfect for me. He is my role model and he is the person I want to be similar to when I will grow up. I want to have a family and I want my children to be as found of me as I am of my father. I love my father very much and I do appreciate everything he does for my development and me. I think that my father and I have perfect relationships and I hope that with flow of time they will only improve.

In this essay, I am going to tell you about my father whom I am very proud of.

It is often said that there are no perfect fathers in the world. However, I do not agree with this statement. My dad is ideal. I believe that he is special; his deeds and behavior are also special. My father always speaks and dresses in an appropriate manner. Without doubt, he is a person I deeply admire, and the thought that I am his daughter makes me really happy. I would like to describe my father in detail so that you can understand why my father is so special for me.

When you first meet my father, you may think that he is conservative since he adores wearing formal clothes. However, you should not judge the person by his appearance. If you knew my dad for a few years, you would notice that he likes to wear different clothes, including elegant suits, knitted sweaters with casual jeans, and even T-shirts with shorts. In my opinion, such diversity in wardrobe shows his many-sided, rich inner world. I like the way my father dresses because it illustrates his lifestyle. The thing that I like most is that all the outfits really fit him. Therefore, I believe that my father has a really good taste.

Now, when you know how my father looks like, it is time to describe his moves since they can tell a lot about his individuality. My father does not like to walk slowly; he always moves fast. It means that he wants to do everything he has planned in a timely manner. My dad does not waste his precious time in vain. Undoubtedly, he loves his active lifestyle. What is more, my father always teaches me to enjoy every moment of our life. He reasonably explains the benefits of doing everything with delight and diligence. In addition, due to his active life position, my dad effortlessly copes with any hardship on his way.

I would like to mention that the way my father speaks is fascinating. Everyone who communicates with him can say that his speeches are clear and reasonable. My father is always interested in the subject he is talking about. Without doubt, he is a perfect interlocutor. Also, one can notice that his face expresses different emotions when he is talking. When my father is content with the issue, there is a genuine smile on his face. When he disagrees with something, he knits his eyebrows. Therefore, while speaking with him, you can guess what my father feels toward a subject being discussed.

My father never argues over the issues he knows nothing about. When listening to him, you can learn some interesting and useful information. My father reads a lot of books. He is interested in the most debatable current issues and always wants to know more. When talking with others, he tries to support his thoughts with facts to be completely objective. He believes that false statements can do harm to a person. I am happy that my dad has unbiased opinions, and he never tries to impose them on others. Obviously, my father is a very smart man. He likes to share his experience as well as learn the experiences of people surrounding him.

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What is more, my father always gives me good advice when I ask for it. He can calm me when there is a need to do so. When I feel bad, he finds proper words to support me. I greatly appreciate such moments. I am really happy that my father cares about my family and me. What is more, he always gives me a helping hand and teaches to help others. He understands that he is an example I want to follow.

Even though my father is very active, he does not like to show his feelings and emotions to the public. Thus, when we go out, my dad tries to be serious and behaves in an appropriate way. He says that every man should act like a man, not a monkey. When we are at home, my father acts more freely. He likes to tell us jokes and we laugh at them together. I feel that my father loves me very much even though he does not tell me about it every day. However, he does not need to repeat it again and again. Such things are obvious without any words. I am grateful to my father for his sincerity and tender attitude to me.

This is the way I see my dad. I suppose one can say that I exaggerate because there are no perfect people in the world. However, my father is a real role model for me. I would like to have all those good features that he has. I would like my children to perceive me the same way I perceive my father. I appreciate his kindness, love, and belief in me. I wish everyone could have such close relations with their fathers as I have with mine.

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Essay on My Father (1000+ Words)

Typically, people speak of mother’s love and appreciation, and often overlook the father’s attention. Mother’s love is talked extensively around anywhere, in film, in series, and much more.

What we fail to recognize, though, is the power of a parent who always gets overlooked. My father is a gift which not many citizens see in their lives. 

It’d be incorrect to assume that every dad is the perfect hero for his kids, and it is not the case. However, I will voucher for my dad without even any second thoughts until it comes to becoming an ideal man.

How different is my father?

As everyone wants to assume that their father is exceptional, so do me. However, this belief is not purely based on the passion I have for him but also on his character.

My father has a company and is very diligent in all facets of life. My father is one of those who told me to exercise still professionalism, no matter what kind of work I do.

Most notably, he has a pleasant disposition and always makes my mom laugh with his dumb shenanigans, and after 27 months of the relationship.

I totally enjoy this dumb side of him when he’s around his relatives. He does his hardest to satisfy all our desires, but he still retains strictness whenever the need arises.

My childhood memories about him are a stern, strict, or not very conversational man. He would crack its most funny jokes of Dad, and we’ll all laugh and smile.

He felt a persevering and robust sense of obligation for his own birth family and also his marital ones.

The meager paycheck that he always received would be shared between such two families, so when he was bad in currying favor or supporting himself, my father did not rise inside the ranks, so his profits remained very mirage until he passed.

This formally made us a low-income family, so our childhoods were thrifty, frugal, and austere. A little bit of money mattered a lot.

In spite of these limitations, my father has effectively prepared our futures. If his provident money was released during his retirement, he used the whole sum, plus a personal loan, to purchase a home and in the name of his young son. We had a roof above our heads and for the remainder of our days.

Why do I like my father?

Among the most amazing aspects of my father was the number of things he was involved in.

He’d spend hours from outside the tailor’s shop seeing him making shirts, and within a few months, he purchased himself the Singer sewing machine. From that day forward, all our clothing, along with the winter school uniforms, were sewn by him.

He taught himself carpentry and designed the sofa sets that we’ve been using for generations.

He got to learn dry cleaning and then after that, in winter, we did go to school smelling kerosene.

My father was a great chef, so he enjoyed the food. While my mother was immobilized by lymphatic TB, she must have prepared breakfast, lunch, or dinner for her family and in the morning until heading off to work.

Best of everyone, he was a talented guitarist, blessed with the vichitra veena. He had a Carnatic’ band’ of his own with such a flautist as well as a mridangam player.

Things I learned from my father

Slowly, I learned how much more of how I was influenced by who he is and. Like him, I’m never tired, so I’m always intrigued by everything else in my life.

I’m still interested in doing something positive or educational. I’m 2 two years younger now than he was while he died, so I began to learn how to play piano, appreciate search engine optimization, UX design, or drawing.

I heard from him every kindness is a frame of mind, not a wallet condition. The amount of nameless, faceless poor folks my father supported was long, which we heard only when he passed.

Never demeaning the recipients with such a handout, he encouraged them to reimburse at their pace and time but made saying they actually so, preserving their self-respect.

Without even talking about it, he taught me what something means to become a parent, and what it means to become a lifeless person.

My father as the source of motivation

I can proudly say that this was my father, who was the source of my inspiration since day one. In those other words, his outlook and personality influenced me together like a human.

About the same way, he still has a huge effect on the environment inside his own little ways. My father dedicates his spare time to have to take care of stray animals that encourage me to be doing the same thing.

My father has told me the essence of love in the shape of a rose that he gives to my mother every day without fail. This continuity and devotion encourage us all to handle them in the same manner.

All my experience in sports or vehicles, I’ve come from my dad. This is one of the few reasons why I want to be a cricket player in the future.

10 Lines on my father

• He is a caring and obliging man who takes care of my whole family.
• He is a talented engineer or a very hard-working individual.
• He’s an articulate guy who answers all the questions smartly.
• My father loves his own family, my mother, or every member of the family.
• He retains a cordial relationship with our family, acquaintances, and colleagues.
• He’s going to bring my sister or me to college or my mother for work every day.
• Every day, he supports my younger sister in our studies and me.
• He shows us proper manners , compassion, and the ethic of living.
• My dad is my role model, and one day I want to be around him.
• My father is, or is always, a huge inspiration to me.

My friendship with my father is summed up by a single occurrence. He wanted me to attend the IIT for becoming an engineer.

I decided to become a novelist, a career he disdained to have no future. Headstrong, in 1969, I left the train wherein my family moved via Delhi to Bombay even as the whistle sounded. I’ve been bent on enjoying my way of life.

My father, profoundly upset, cut me over without a country, saying that I should really help myself whether I was so optimistic about writing. But so did I, raising enough by writing night papers to cover my lease, college tuition, or food.

Six months later, my dad, moving via Delhi in December, met me to see how his powerful-headed son would do and saw that I had lived quite well without borrowing and asking. He was clearly swelled with pride.

My father hugged me, forgave me for one moment, used 400 rupees as a Christmas bonus to buy me utensils, a mattress, and other essentials.

Since that day on, he could happily say, “My son pursued his heart more than my head – see what a great job he did.”

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To my father: Thank you for showing me what to look for in a man

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When I look at my husband, I see the same similarities of a devoted father and husband. Of a man who would do anything for his family despite the unpleasantries that life may throw his way.

By Mariah Maddox Updated May 1, 2024

From the bottom of my heart, thank you. Because you have shown me the essence of a real man. You have carried the epitome of a devoted father and husband for many years, and you continue to do so. From as far back as I can remember, you have dedicated so much of yourself to the well-being of your family.

Raising children is a tough job, but you and mom took on the task of raising nine of us. Though you may think that much of your hard work has gone unseen, all that you have done for us is evident in the beautiful lives that we are blessed to be living—lives built on your (and mom’s) selfless sacrifices. 

You and I may not have always been the closest growing up, but there are certain moments that I still hold dear to my heart to this day, like how you’d take me to get a slushy every day after you picked me up from school even though you had to be at work shortly after. I remember all the moments that you selflessly pushed aside the battles you were dealing with just to see us smile.

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When I look at my husband, I see the same similarities of a devoted father and husband.

One thing you made sure of was that we were always taken care of. You endlessly poured (and continue to pour) into our family with the love of a committed father and husband—even when you were stretched thin and burdened beyond what our eyes could see or our minds could understand.

Sure, mom was within arm’s reach most of my childhood as she tended to the household while you worked long hours away from home, but the way you both balanced each other built my understanding of a loving and healthy marriage —especially after kids. Because of that and because of your steady presence in my life, you unknowingly showed me what to look for in a man. And as a result of your constant love, I believe that I am blessed with the best husband and the best father for my child.

When I look at my husband, I see the same similarities of a devoted father and husband. Of a man who would do anything for his family despite the unpleasantries that life may throw his way. I see the tiring days and the long nights that await him, yet the way he still fills the house with laughter and unending love. And for this, I am grateful.

As a woman with her own family now, you and I have had the opportunity of experiencing a new dynamic in our relationship as you watched me become a wife and a mother. You have also taken my husband under your arms, loving him as your own, especially since his father passed away. I am grateful that he, too, gets to have you as a father-figure in his life.

Because I know the lasting effect of having an active dad. More than ever now, I am grateful that you have played a substantial role in my upbringing, teaching me and protecting me the best way you knew how. And because of that, I look forward to the bond that my husband will build with our son and the way that their relationship unfolds over the years.

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Because I saw those qualities in you and witnessed the unwavering love between you and mom, I was able to resemble that in my own relationship.

So to my dad, I am lucky to have you as my father. I am full of gratitude for all the things you have taught me, and for the fact that you showed me what to look for in a man. A selfless, patient, devoted, understanding and loving man. Because I saw those qualities in you and witnessed the unwavering love between you and mom, I was able to resemble that in my own relationship.

And now, as a result, I am building a beautiful life with my husband and our son. I look forward to the traditions they build and the ways my husband teaches our son to be a kind and respectable young man. Because one day, if he so chooses, our son will have a family of his own. And I want his significant other to see evidence of the love that he was raised on. A love that has been passed from generation to generation. A love that will forever stand.

A version of this post was published May 31, 2022. It has been updated.

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Essay on My Father: The father is the head of the family and the one who provides for the family. He is the one who sets the tone for the family and is the one who is responsible for the well-being of the family. The father is the one who provides the love and support that the family needs. Also, he is the one who protects the family and provides the stability that the family needs. Needless to say, he is the role model to all his children.

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Children generally understand their father a real hero and a good friend of the life who always instruct them to go on the right path. Here in this article, we have provided long and short essay on my father in simple and easy words. This will help students give a head start of writing a perfect essay. After going through these essays you will know what is the role of a father in a family, what are his responsibilities, why is his presence much needed in a family, etc. These essays will prove helpful in school essays, debate and speech giving.

Long and Short Essay on My Father in English

Essay on my father 100 words.

My father is an ideal person of my life. He is my real hero and my best friend ever. He always helps me a lot in my any difficulty. He is an internet marketing manager in a limited company in New Delhi. He is very famous person in his office as well as in the society because of his gentleness and politeness.

He is very intelligent man and always helps others in their problems. He is the boss of my family and gives advice and instruction to every family member. He solves problems of the neighbours. He takes me to school on every PTM and discusses my performance with my teacher.

Essay on My Father 150 words

My father is very kind-hearted person and my real hero and best friend. He always shares with me his all the bad an happy moments. He tells me that he discuss his all life events to me to give me experience and take right steps in the absence of him. He wants to make me a good person in the life and most importantly a successful person by following all the etiquettes, humanity and ethics of the life. He is the person who always helps the needy people in the society or anywhere on the way. He teaches me about how to get fit, healthy, happy and a peaceful person all through the life.

He is the good adviser in my family, every family member takes advice from him whenever they get problem. He is the head of the family and always takes first seat while eating food at dining table.

Essay on My Father 200 words

My father is very loving and dutiful person. I always learn from his life and his experiences. He tells me about his all the struggle of life and his success. He is the person who teaches me about etiquettes, humanity and ethics. He helps me to get out of the bed every morning and helps me in getting prepared for the school at right time. My mom prepares my breakfast and lunch however my father helps me in getting ready.

He comes from office every evening at 6 pm with lots of joy and happiness. He is very active person and starts playing badminton with us just after coming from the office. He brings chocolates curcure, fruits, beautiful toys, picture books, comedy books, clothes, shoes and other required stationeries for study.

He takes us out of the home every Sunday morning in the park or other favourite places to make our holiday a happy holiday. We take delicious breakfast at every Sunday morning and be together whole day with lots of activities. Sometimes we go to the picnic or famous sightseeing for long time with all family members. In my winter and summer vacations, my father takes us (me, my sister, mom and grandparents) to the hill stations, seaside and hotels for some rest or recreations.

Essay on My Father 250 words

My father is very lovely father of the world. He is my real hero, best friend, my inspiration and best person of my life I ever seen. He is the person who helps me a lot in getting prepared for the school, getting rise of the bed and getting my home work done well.

He always cares for me and calls to my mom in the afternoon to know that whether I have come from school at right time or not. He is very healthy, fit, happiest, peaceful and punctual person. He always goes to the office at right time and teaches us too to go to school at right time. He teaches us the value of time in the life and says that if one wastes his/her time, time ruin his/her life.

He is very nice person and helps my neighbours in their difficult time. He loves, cares and respects my mom always and never quarrel her. He always supports her and helps sometime in the kitchen during her illness. He respects and loves my grandparents and teaches us to care for them. He tells us that old people are like God for us, we should care, love and respect them.

We should never avoid old persons in their difficult time as this time comes in everyone’s life once. He tells us that we should always help needy people of any age group all though the life according to our status. He takes 15 mins of us every day to tell us about the ethics and other good habits.

Essay on My Father 300 words

My father is my best friend and real hero of my life. I generally call him Dad. He is the most special person in my life. He is a very good sports person and artist. He does paintings in his spare time and promotes us also to do paintings. He tells us that we should anything extra like music, singing, sports activity, painting, dancing, cartoon making, etc because such extra activities keeps us busy in our spare time and helps us to be peaceful all through the life. By profession, he is an internet marketing manager (a software Engineer) in a limited company in New Delhi.

He never thinks to be back in helping needy people and always ready to help them especially old people. He is my best friend and discusses my all problems. Whenever I become fed up, he ask me the reason very peacefully and takes me to the top floor, let me sit in his side, keep his hand on my shoulder and discuss his own experiences of life, his faults an drawbacks including his success in order to make me realize that what I am doing wrong or right.

He teaches us about ethics of the life and importance of elders and the life time. He tells us that we should never make any person unhappy in our life and always help needy people especially old people.

He always cares of my grandparents and tells us that old people are like precious assets of the home, without them we are like children without mother and fish without water. He always gives very good examples to make us understand anything very easily. At every weekend means at Sunday, he takes us outside of the home to the park for picnic where we all enjoy a lot by having some outdoor activities and sports. We generally play badminton as an outdoor game and carom board as an indoor game.

My Father Essay 400 words

The person I admire ever in my life is only my lovely father. I still remember all my childhood memories with my father. He was the real reason of my happiness and joy. What I am is because of him as my mother was always busy in the kitchen and other household activities and it was my father who has joy with me and my sister. I understand he is very unique Dad in the world. I am feeling of being so lucky to have such father in my life. I always praise to god to give me such opportunity to take birth in the family with good father.

He is very polite and peaceful person. He never scolded me and takes my all mistakes very easily and makes me realize my all mistakes very politely. He is the boss of my family and helps each and every family member to take good decision in the bad time. He always shares his life drawbacks and achievements with me to let us know. He has his own business of online marketing but never force me to do go in the same field or attract me towards his own business instead he always promote to do what I want in my life. He is really a good dad not because he helps me but because of his knowledge, strength, helping nature and most importantly his way of handling people.

He always respects his parents means my grandparents and cares for them all time. I still remember that when I was little, my grandparents were generally talked to me about my father naughtiness in his childhood but they told me that your father is very good person in his life, be like him. It is my father who wants to see everyone happy in the family and always asks whenever anyone becomes sad and solves his/her problems. He loves and cares my mom and suggests her to take rest when she gets tired of doing all the household chores. My dad is my inspiration, he always becomes ready to help me in my school tasks and even go to every PTM to discuss my behaviour and performance in the class.

My father was born in very poor family however currently he is one of the richest people in the city because of his patience, hard works and helping nature. My friends generally tell me so lucky of being the son of such father. I usually laugh on such type of comments and tell my father, he also laughs and says that what they are telling is not true but the truth is that I am so lucky to have son like you. He tells me that, my son always be what you want and always believe in you.

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115 Heartfelt Birthday Wishes for Your Dad

No sure what to say or write to your father on his big day? Look to one of these touching and funny messages.

It’s your dad’s big day: his birthday!

Chances are, he's your forever hero and the first man in your life to show you unconditional love. That’s why his special day is the perfect time to shower him with the same love he’s shown you since the day you were born. What better way to let your father or father figure know how much he means to you than by sending him a heartfelt birthday wish?

We’ve compiled some of the best birthday wishes for dads that will make his day shine even brighter. He’s sure to smile, laugh and maybe even shed a tear (happy tears, of course!) after reading or hearing your touching message. Whether he loves cracking corny dad jokes or is the sentimental dad who gets emotional looking at sappy TikTok videos, this round-up of birthday wishes will speak to his unique personality. Use them to spark inspiration for your own words or use them as is — no matter what you decide, your sentiments are sure to resonate and make his birthday even more special.

Also, remember that these birthday wishes can be written inside a card , shared via text or posted as an Instagram caption under your favorite photo of the two of you. Regardless of how your messages are shared, your dad will appreciate your thoughtfulness.

And don't forget to check out our birthday wishes for mothers , sweet notes for best friends , special messages for sons and thoughtful words for daughters

Short and Sweet Birthday Wishes for Your Dad

• Dad, you’ll always be my favorite superhero! HBD!
• Happy birthday, old man!
• Wishing the best dad in the galaxy an out-of-this-world birthday!
• HBD, big guy! I love you more than you’ll ever know.
• I’m the luckiest person to have a dad like you. Happy birthday!
• You’re one-of-a-kind and I love you so much. Happy birthday, dad!
• I love you today, tomorrow and forever. Happy birthday, dad!
• Wishing the most wonderful dad the best birthday ever!
• Happy birthday, dad! I love you!
• Happy birthday to the best dad in the universe!
• Wishing the bravest man in the world a happy birthday.
• Time to make some wishes, dad. Happy birthday!
• Fathers are the best gift. Happy birthday!
• I can’t wait to celebrate your special day with you. Happy birthday!
• Cheers to another trip around the sun!
• Happy cake day! Enjoy.
• You’re the best father anyone could ever ask for. Happy birthday!
• Wishing you the best birthday yet!
• Happy birthday to the person who loves me unconditionally.
• Happy birthday to my most cherished confidante!
• Wishing my one and only dad a very happy birthday.
• Happy birthday to my biggest supporter.
• Happy birthday, dad. You’re the best!
• Happy birthday to my smart and awesome dad!
• Today we honor and celebrate you, dad!!

Touching Birthday Wishes for Your Dad

• I hope today brings you as much joy and happiness as you bring to everyone who is lucky enough to know you.
• No matter how old I get, you’ll always be my forever protector.
• I hope you know that I love you with every fiber of my body. Happy birthday to the best dad anyone could ever want.
• Thank you for always making me feel safe and loved. Sometimes the simplest things are the most precious and cherished.
• You’ve always been my personal superhero. Thank you for all the lessons you’ve taught me over the years. Happy birthday, dad!
• Nothing could ever break our special bond. I’m lucky to have such a loving father. Happy birthday!
• I can always count on you to lift me when I’m low and encourage me to keep going at my heights. Thank you for being you. Happy birthday, dad.
• No one can make me laugh the way you do. Today, I hope to bring a smile to your face. Happy birthday!
• You’re always there for me and I hope to always return the favor. Happy birthday, dad!
• Happy birthday to the person responsible for shaping me into the person I am today. I love you, dad!
• You always know what to say to brighten even my darkest days. Happy birthday, dad.
• Happy birthday to the man who sacrificed so much for me. I admire you more than you’ll ever know!
• Thank you for being a shoulder I can always lean on no matter what. I love you so much. Happy birthday, dad!
• You’ve always been my biggest supporter. Wishing you the absolute best birthday, dad!
• Fathers are the greatest gift that anyone could ever have. I’m so grateful to call you dad. Happy birthday!
• Dads always give the best advice — and for that, I’m forever grateful. Happy birthday, big guy.
• You’re one of the best parts of my life and I’m so proud to call you, my father. Wishing you a wonderful birthday.
• No matter what I’m going through, you always know how to make me feel better. I appreciate you more than you’ll ever know. I love you, dad. Happy birthday!
• I look back fondly on my childhood and you’re responsible for that. Thank you for being the best dad ever. Happy birthday!
• Thank you for being my first teacher. I’m still learning from the best. Wishing you a wonderful birthday, dad!
• Today is your day to shine, but you’re always a star in my eyes. Happy birthday, dad!
• I’m beyond grateful to call you my father and most importantly, my friend. Happy birthday.
• A father’s love is something that you can’t put into words. I hope you always know how much you mean to me. Happy birthday!
• When you blow out your candles, I hope that all your wishes come true. Happy birthday, dad! Happy birthday to my best friend. Thank you for being you. Happy birthday, dad.
• You’ve always been one of my biggest inspirations. Wishing you the best on your personal new year!
• As I look back on my life, I owe you everything and then some. Today, we celebrate you. Happy birthday, dad!
• Thank you for being such an awesome role model for me. You will always be my biggest inspiration. Happy birthday, dad.
• If I’m even half the person you are, I’ll be grateful. Happy birthday to my fearless and strong dad.
• When times are good and when they are bad, you’ll always be the best dad I could ever have. Happy birthday!
• Happy birthday to the man who always knows how to make me see the glass half full. I admire your optimism. Happy birthday, dad.
• Your smile always lights up every room. Keep being the guiding light in our lives. Happy birthday, dad!
• No one can make me laugh the way that you do. Your sense of humor is unmatched, and I love you for it. Happy birthday to my hilarious dad!
• Today we celebrate the wonderful man who makes us all smile. Happy birthday, dad!
• I’ve always admired your larger-than-life personality, but most importantly your kindness. Happy birthday, dad.

Birthday Blessings for Your Dad

• May God continue to bless you with wisdom because He knows that I count on you for all your sage advice. Happy birthday!
• May God hold you in the palm of His hand today and always. Happy Birthday!
• Congratulations on another trip around the sun. May your journey continue to be blessed. Happy birthday!
• God continues to show me that unconditional love exists. You’re proof. Happy birthday!
• When the universe made us father and child, it was one of my biggest blessings! Happy birthday, dad.
• Keep being the loving and kind person you are and watch your blessings continue to flow. Happy birthday!
• It’s because of you I’m the person that I am today. May God continue to guide your path, dad. Happy birthday!
• There are no words to express how blessed I am that God chose you to be my father. Happy birthday, dad!
• I’m truly the luckiest person in the world to call you an incredible person like you, “dad.” Wishing you countless blessings on your special day.
• Happy birthday to one of God’s greatest gifts!
• God blessed me with the absolute best father on the planet. Happy birthday, dad!
• When I think about the wonderful people in my life, you’re at the top of my list. Happy birthday, dad!
• I’m convinced that God blessed me with the absolute best father on the planet. Happy birthday!
• God blessed me when He made you, my dad. Wishing you an awesome birthday!
• When I look at you, I look at the wonderful person I hope to become. Thank you for being the blueprint of an extraordinary human being.
• There’s not a day that goes by that I don’t thank God for making you, my dad. Wishing you the best birthday ever!
• Your birthday will always be one of my favorite days. That’s because it was the day my wonderful father was born. Happy birthday!
• May God continue to cover you on your special day and beyond. Wishing you a fantastic birthday, dad!
• You’re the epitome of what a good father should be. God blessed me when He made you, my dad. Have a wonderful birthday!
• Every day I thank the Lord for allowing someone as special as you to be my guiding light in life. Birthday blessings to you, dad.
• My prayer is that you get everything you want and more. You deserve it all. Happy birthday, dad!
• As you turn another year older, I know that God will continue to bless you. Enjoy your special day, dad. Happy birthday!
• May your birthday be filled with joy and endless blessings!
• My prayer will always be for your peace and happiness. Wishing you the best birthday yet! I love you, dad.
• I’m forever grateful to God for making me your child. Having you as a father is the greatest blessing I could’ve ever received. Wishing you a wonderful birthday.
• There’s nothing like a father and child bond. I’m so blessed to have you as my dad. Happy birthday!
• May the Lord’s blessings shower over you today and always. Enjoy your birthday!
• Today we celebrate one of God’s greatest creations: you! Happy birthday, dad.
• You’ve taught me to always count my blessings and those will forever include you. Happy birthday to my amazing dad!
• I will always praise God for making you, my dad. We have an unbreakable bond that I’ll always cherish. Happy birthday!
• Wishing you a blessed birthday. Enjoy, dad!
• I’m always praying that infinite blessings pour into your life. Today and every day, I wish you nothing but joy. Happy birthday!

Funny Birthday Wishes for Your Dad

• Dad, you’re not getting older — your hair is just taking a leave of absence. Happy birthday!
• Dad, your jokes will always make me laugh simply because everything you do brings a smile to my face. Happy birthday, to the corniest man I know!
• I hope you have the best day ever, old timer!
• Happy birthday, dad. I hope this card quacks you up!
• Don’t worry about turning a year older, dad. Pretty soon you won’t be able to remember your age anyway. Happy birthday, old man!
• Don’t party too hard, old man! Remember your curfew! Happy birthday, dad.
• Don’t bother counting the candles on your cake because you won’t finish until your next birthday!
• I’m pretty sure I’m the favorite child, but since it’s your special day, I won’t put you on the spot! Happy birthday, dad!
• Happy birthday to the one who’s seen me at my best and at my worst! And we all know there have been plenty of the “worst” days.
• You deserve to be honored today. After all, you did help bring the most amazing person to ever walk the earth into the world: me! Happy birthday, dad.
• Happy birthday, dad. Don’t you worry about getting a year older. It just means you’re getting wiser or is that just something people say.
• I hope your birthday celebration is full of many memorable moments, and that you can actually remember some of them the next day.
• Happy birthday, dad. Enjoy another 365 days of an all-expense paid trip around the sun!
• Even though my siblings always thought they were the favorite, we all know the truth. Right, dad? Happy birthday!
• I guess your birthday wish came true because you have me as a daughter! Happy birthday, dad.
• Happy Birthday! Don’t worry – I would never make fun of your age. You might hit me with your walking cane!
• We may need to call the fire department with all of those candles on the cake! Enjoy your special day, dad!
• I brought you the best birthday present ever: me! Happy birthday, dad.
• If you weren’t born, I wouldn’t be here. Now wouldn’t that be awful? So happy birthday, dad!
• Happy Birthday, dad! Don’t hurt yourself blowing out all those candles!
• Happy birthday to the person who is perfect in every way. Well, except your cooking. I love you anyway, dad!
• Happy birthday, dad. With all my adolescent drama, it’s a miracle I didn’t send you to an early grave!
• Happy birthday to the man who knows what I’m thinking before I utter a single word. Is that your superpower?
• It’s your birthday! This is a big one. Then again, at your age, every birthday is a big one! Happy birthday, dad!

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If you grow up to be a professional writer, everything you write will first go through an editor before being published. This is because the process of writing is really a process of re-writing —of rethinking and reexamining your work, usually with the help of someone else. So what does this mean for your student writing? And in particular, what does it mean for very important, but nonprofessional writing like your college essay? Should you ask your parents to look at your essay? Pay for an essay service?

If you are wondering what kind of help you can, and should, get with your personal statement, you've come to the right place! In this article, I'll talk about what kind of writing help is useful, ethical, and even expected for your college admission essay . I'll also point out who would make a good editor, what the differences between editing and proofreading are, what to expect from a good editor, and how to spot and stay away from a bad one.

Table of Contents

What Kind of Help for Your Essay Can You Get?

What's Good Editing?

What should an editor do for you, what kind of editing should you avoid, proofreading, what's good proofreading, what kind of proofreading should you avoid.

What Do Colleges Think Of You Getting Help With Your Essay?

Who Can/Should Help You?

Advice for editors.

Should You Pay Money For Essay Editing?

The Bottom Line

What's next, what kind of help with your essay can you get.

Rather than talking in general terms about "help," let's first clarify the two different ways that someone else can improve your writing . There is editing, which is the more intensive kind of assistance that you can use throughout the whole process. And then there's proofreading, which is the last step of really polishing your final product.

Let me go into some more detail about editing and proofreading, and then explain how good editors and proofreaders can help you."

Editing is helping the author (in this case, you) go from a rough draft to a finished work . Editing is the process of asking questions about what you're saying, how you're saying it, and how you're organizing your ideas. But not all editing is good editing . In fact, it's very easy for an editor to cross the line from supportive to overbearing and over-involved.

Ability to clarify assignments. A good editor is usually a good writer, and certainly has to be a good reader. For example, in this case, a good editor should make sure you understand the actual essay prompt you're supposed to be answering.

Open-endedness. Good editing is all about asking questions about your ideas and work, but without providing answers. It's about letting you stick to your story and message, and doesn't alter your point of view.

Think of an editor as a great travel guide. It can show you the many different places your trip could take you. It should explain any parts of the trip that could derail your trip or confuse the traveler. But it never dictates your path, never forces you to go somewhere you don't want to go, and never ignores your interests so that the trip no longer seems like it's your own. So what should good editors do?

Help Brainstorm Topics

Sometimes it's easier to bounce thoughts off of someone else. This doesn't mean that your editor gets to come up with ideas, but they can certainly respond to the various topic options you've come up with. This way, you're less likely to write about the most boring of your ideas, or to write about something that isn't actually important to you.

If you're wondering how to come up with options for your editor to consider, check out our guide to brainstorming topics for your college essay .

Help Revise Your Drafts

Here, your editor can't upset the delicate balance of not intervening too much or too little. It's tricky, but a great way to think about it is to remember: editing is about asking questions, not giving answers .

Revision questions should point out:

• Places where more detail or more description would help the reader connect with your essay
• Places where structure and logic don't flow, losing the reader's attention
• Places where there aren't transitions between paragraphs, confusing the reader
• Moments where your narrative or the arguments you're making are unclear

But pointing to potential problems is not the same as actually rewriting—editors let authors fix the problems themselves.

Bad editing is usually very heavy-handed editing. Instead of helping you find your best voice and ideas, a bad editor changes your writing into their own vision.

You may be dealing with a bad editor if they:

• Add material (examples, descriptions) that doesn't come from you
• Use a thesaurus to make your college essay sound "more mature"
• Add meaning or insight to the essay that doesn't come from you
• Tell you what to say and how to say it
• Write sentences, phrases, and paragraphs for you
• Change your voice in the essay so it no longer sounds like it was written by a teenager

Colleges can tell the difference between a 17-year-old's writing and a 50-year-old's writing. Not only that, they have access to your SAT or ACT Writing section, so they can compare your essay to something else you wrote. Writing that's a little more polished is great and expected. But a totally different voice and style will raise questions.

Where's the Line Between Helpful Editing and Unethical Over-Editing?

Sometimes it's hard to tell whether your college essay editor is doing the right thing. Here are some guidelines for staying on the ethical side of the line.

• An editor should say that the opening paragraph is kind of boring, and explain what exactly is making it drag. But it's overstepping for an editor to tell you exactly how to change it.
• An editor should point out where your prose is unclear or vague. But it's completely inappropriate for the editor to rewrite that section of your essay.
• An editor should let you know that a section is light on detail or description. But giving you similes and metaphors to beef up that description is a no-go.

Proofreading (also called copy-editing) is checking for errors in the last draft of a written work. It happens at the end of the process and is meant as the final polishing touch. Proofreading is meticulous and detail-oriented, focusing on small corrections. It sands off all the surface rough spots that could alienate the reader.

Because proofreading is usually concerned with making fixes on the word or sentence level, this is the only process where someone else can actually add to or take away things from your essay . This is because what they are adding or taking away tends to be one or two misplaced letters.

Laser focus. Proofreading is all about the tiny details, so the ability to really concentrate on finding small slip-ups is a must.

Excellent grammar and spelling skills. Proofreaders need to dot every "i" and cross every "t." Good proofreaders should correct spelling, punctuation, capitalization, and grammar. They should put foreign words in italics and surround quotations with quotation marks. They should check that you used the correct college's name, and that you adhered to any formatting requirements (name and date at the top of the page, uniform font and size, uniform spacing).

Limited interference. A proofreader needs to make sure that you followed any word limits. But if cuts need to be made to shorten the essay, that's your job and not the proofreader's.

A bad proofreader either tries to turn into an editor, or just lacks the skills and knowledge necessary to do the job.

Some signs that you're working with a bad proofreader are:

• If they suggest making major changes to the final draft of your essay. Proofreading happens when editing is already finished.
• If they aren't particularly good at spelling, or don't know grammar, or aren't detail-oriented enough to find someone else's small mistakes.
• If they start swapping out your words for fancier-sounding synonyms, or changing the voice and sound of your essay in other ways. A proofreader is there to check for errors, not to take the 17-year-old out of your writing.

What Do Colleges Think of Your Getting Help With Your Essay?

Admissions officers agree: light editing and proofreading are good—even required ! But they also want to make sure you're the one doing the work on your essay. They want essays with stories, voice, and themes that come from you. They want to see work that reflects your actual writing ability, and that focuses on what you find important.

On the Importance of Editing

Get feedback. Have a fresh pair of eyes give you some feedback. Don't allow someone else to rewrite your essay, but do take advantage of others' edits and opinions when they seem helpful. ( Bates College )

Read your essay aloud to someone. Reading the essay out loud offers a chance to hear how your essay sounds outside your head. This exercise reveals flaws in the essay's flow, highlights grammatical errors and helps you ensure that you are communicating the exact message you intended. ( Dickinson College )

On the Value of Proofreading

Share your essays with at least one or two people who know you well—such as a parent, teacher, counselor, or friend—and ask for feedback. Remember that you ultimately have control over your essays, and your essays should retain your own voice, but others may be able to catch mistakes that you missed and help suggest areas to cut if you are over the word limit. ( Yale University )

Proofread and then ask someone else to proofread for you. Although we want substance, we also want to be able to see that you can write a paper for our professors and avoid careless mistakes that would drive them crazy. ( Oberlin College )

On Watching Out for Too Much Outside Influence

Limit the number of people who review your essay. Too much input usually means your voice is lost in the writing style. ( Carleton College )

Ask for input (but not too much). Your parents, friends, guidance counselors, coaches, and teachers are great people to bounce ideas off of for your essay. They know how unique and spectacular you are, and they can help you decide how to articulate it. Keep in mind, however, that a 45-year-old lawyer writes quite differently from an 18-year-old student, so if your dad ends up writing the bulk of your essay, we're probably going to notice. ( Vanderbilt University )

Now let's talk about some potential people to approach for your college essay editing and proofreading needs. It's best to start close to home and slowly expand outward. Not only are your family and friends more invested in your success than strangers, but they also have a better handle on your interests and personality. This knowledge is key for judging whether your essay is expressing your true self.

Parents or Close Relatives

Your family may be full of potentially excellent editors! Parents are deeply committed to your well-being, and family members know you and your life well enough to offer details or incidents that can be included in your essay. On the other hand, the rewriting process necessarily involves criticism, which is sometimes hard to hear from someone very close to you.

A parent or close family member is a great choice for an editor if you can answer "yes" to the following questions. Is your parent or close relative a good writer or reader? Do you have a relationship where editing your essay won't create conflict? Are you able to constructively listen to criticism and suggestion from the parent?

One suggestion for defusing face-to-face discussions is to try working on the essay over email. Send your parent a draft, have them write you back some comments, and then you can pick which of their suggestions you want to use and which to discard.

Teachers or Tutors

A humanities teacher that you have a good relationship with is a great choice. I am purposefully saying humanities, and not just English, because teachers of Philosophy, History, Anthropology, and any other classes where you do a lot of writing, are all used to reviewing student work.

Moreover, any teacher or tutor that has been working with you for some time, knows you very well and can vet the essay to make sure it "sounds like you."

If your teacher or tutor has some experience with what college essays are supposed to be like, ask them to be your editor. If not, then ask whether they have time to proofread your final draft.

Guidance or College Counselor at Your School

The best thing about asking your counselor to edit your work is that this is their job. This means that they have a very good sense of what colleges are looking for in an application essay.

At the same time, school counselors tend to have relationships with admissions officers in many colleges, which again gives them insight into what works and which college is focused on what aspect of the application.

Unfortunately, in many schools the guidance counselor tends to be way overextended. If your ratio is 300 students to 1 college counselor, you're unlikely to get that person's undivided attention and focus. It is still useful to ask them for general advice about your potential topics, but don't expect them to be able to stay with your essay from first draft to final version.

Friends, Siblings, or Classmates

Although they most likely don't have much experience with what colleges are hoping to see, your peers are excellent sources for checking that your essay is you .

Friends and siblings are perfect for the read-aloud edit. Read your essay to them so they can listen for words and phrases that are stilted, pompous, or phrases that just don't sound like you.

You can even trade essays and give helpful advice on each other's work.

If your editor hasn't worked with college admissions essays very much, no worries! Any astute and attentive reader can still greatly help with your process. But, as in all things, beginners do better with some preparation.

First, your editor should read our advice about how to write a college essay introduction , how to spot and fix a bad college essay , and get a sense of what other students have written by going through some admissions essays that worked .

Then, as they read your essay, they can work through the following series of questions that will help them to guide you.

Introduction Questions

• Is the first sentence a killer opening line? Why or why not?
• Does the introduction hook the reader? Does it have a colorful, detailed, and interesting narrative? Or does it propose a compelling or surprising idea?
• Can you feel the author's voice in the introduction, or is the tone dry, dull, or overly formal? Show the places where the voice comes through.

Essay Body Questions

• Does the essay have a through-line? Is it built around a central argument, thought, idea, or focus? Can you put this idea into your own words?
• How is the essay organized? By logical progression? Chronologically? Do you feel order when you read it, or are there moments where you are confused or lose the thread of the essay?
• Does the essay have both narratives about the author's life and explanations and insight into what these stories reveal about the author's character, personality, goals, or dreams? If not, which is missing?
• Does the essay flow? Are there smooth transitions/clever links between paragraphs? Between the narrative and moments of insight?

Reader Response Questions

• Does the writer's personality come through? Do we know what the speaker cares about? Do we get a sense of "who he or she is"?
• Where did you feel most connected to the essay? Which parts of the essay gave you a "you are there" sensation by invoking your senses? What moments could you picture in your head well?
• Where are the details and examples vague and not specific enough?
• Did you get an "a-ha!" feeling anywhere in the essay? Is there a moment of insight that connected all the dots for you? Is there a good reveal or "twist" anywhere in the essay?
• What are the strengths of this essay? What needs the most improvement?

Should You Pay Money for Essay Editing?

One alternative to asking someone you know to help you with your college essay is the paid editor route. There are two different ways to pay for essay help: a private essay coach or a less personal editing service , like the many proliferating on the internet.

My advice is to think of these options as a last resort rather than your go-to first choice. I'll first go through the reasons why. Then, if you do decide to go with a paid editor, I'll help you decide between a coach and a service.

When to Consider a Paid Editor

In general, I think hiring someone to work on your essay makes a lot of sense if none of the people I discussed above are a possibility for you.

If you can't ask your parents. For example, if your parents aren't good writers, or if English isn't their first language. Or if you think getting your parents to help is going create unnecessary extra conflict in your relationship with them (applying to college is stressful as it is!)

If you can't ask your teacher or tutor. Maybe you don't have a trusted teacher or tutor that has time to look over your essay with focus. Or, for instance, your favorite humanities teacher has very limited experience with college essays and so won't know what admissions officers want to see.

If you can't ask your guidance counselor. This could be because your guidance counselor is way overwhelmed with other students.

If you can't share your essay with those who know you. It might be that your essay is on a very personal topic that you're unwilling to share with parents, teachers, or peers. Just make sure it doesn't fall into one of the bad-idea topics in our article on bad college essays .

If the cost isn't a consideration. Many of these services are quite expensive, and private coaches even more so. If you have finite resources, I'd say that hiring an SAT or ACT tutor (whether it's PrepScholar or someone else) is better way to spend your money . This is because there's no guarantee that a slightly better essay will sufficiently elevate the rest of your application, but a significantly higher SAT score will definitely raise your applicant profile much more.

Should You Hire an Essay Coach?

On the plus side, essay coaches have read dozens or even hundreds of college essays, so they have experience with the format. Also, because you'll be working closely with a specific person, it's more personal than sending your essay to a service, which will know even less about you.

But, on the minus side, you'll still be bouncing ideas off of someone who doesn't know that much about you . In general, if you can adequately get the help from someone you know, there is no advantage to paying someone to help you.

If you do decide to hire a coach, ask your school counselor, or older students that have used the service for recommendations. If you can't afford the coach's fees, ask whether they can work on a sliding scale —many do. And finally, beware those who guarantee admission to your school of choice—essay coaches don't have any special magic that can back up those promises.

Should You Send Your Essay to a Service?

On the plus side, essay editing services provide a similar product to essay coaches, and they cost significantly less . If you have some assurance that you'll be working with a good editor, the lack of face-to-face interaction won't prevent great results.

On the minus side, however, it can be difficult to gauge the quality of the service before working with them . If they are churning through many application essays without getting to know the students they are helping, you could end up with an over-edited essay that sounds just like everyone else's. In the worst case scenario, an unscrupulous service could send you back a plagiarized essay.

Getting recommendations from friends or a school counselor for reputable services is key to avoiding heavy-handed editing that writes essays for you or does too much to change your essay. Including a badly-edited essay like this in your application could cause problems if there are inconsistencies. For example, in interviews it might be clear you didn't write the essay, or the skill of the essay might not be reflected in your schoolwork and test scores.

Should You Buy an Essay Written by Someone Else?

Let me elaborate. There are super sketchy places on the internet where you can simply buy a pre-written essay. Don't do this!

For one thing, you'll be lying on an official, signed document. All college applications make you sign a statement saying something like this:

I certify that all information submitted in the admission process—including the application, the personal essay, any supplements, and any other supporting materials—is my own work, factually true, and honestly presented... I understand that I may be subject to a range of possible disciplinary actions, including admission revocation, expulsion, or revocation of course credit, grades, and degree, should the information I have certified be false. (From the Common Application )

For another thing, if your academic record doesn't match the essay's quality, the admissions officer will start thinking your whole application is riddled with lies.

Admission officers have full access to your writing portion of the SAT or ACT so that they can compare work that was done in proctored conditions with that done at home. They can tell if these were written by different people. Not only that, but there are now a number of search engines that faculty and admission officers can use to see if an essay contains strings of words that have appeared in other essays—you have no guarantee that the essay you bought wasn't also bought by 50 other students.

• You should get college essay help with both editing and proofreading
• A good editor will ask questions about your idea, logic, and structure, and will point out places where clarity is needed
• A good editor will absolutely not answer these questions, give you their own ideas, or write the essay or parts of the essay for you
• A good proofreader will find typos and check your formatting
• All of them agree that getting light editing and proofreading is necessary
• Parents, teachers, guidance or college counselor, and peers or siblings
• If you can't ask any of those, you can pay for college essay help, but watch out for services or coaches who over-edit you work
• Don't buy a pre-written essay! Colleges can tell, and it'll make your whole application sound false.

Ready to start working on your essay? Check out our explanation of the point of the personal essay and the role it plays on your applications and then explore our step-by-step guide to writing a great college essay .

Using the Common Application for your college applications? We have an excellent guide to the Common App essay prompts and useful advice on how to pick the Common App prompt that's right for you . Wondering how other people tackled these prompts? Then work through our roundup of over 130 real college essay examples published by colleges .

Stressed about whether to take the SAT again before submitting your application? Let us help you decide how many times to take this test . If you choose to go for it, we have the ultimate guide to studying for the SAT to give you the ins and outs of the best ways to study.

Anna scored in the 99th percentile on her SATs in high school, and went on to major in English at Princeton and to get her doctorate in English Literature at Columbia. She is passionate about improving student access to higher education.

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Alumni news essay: karma and girl power brought joy mcintyre ’74 to princeton.

On a bright, sunny Saturday in 1960, my father piled us into the car to go see where Daddy worked at his new job at RCA’s David Sarnoff Research Labs on Route 1. After that, we drove up what I now know was Washington Road, and as we passed Guyot Hall, which then had a majestic greenhouse perched on the side, my dad said, “This is Princeton University. It’s the best school in the world.”

“Then that’s where I’m going!” I piped up from the back seat.

Mom turned around and started to say “Oh no, you caaaaa … ” before, for the first and only time in my life, I heard my father shush her. 

“Shhhhh. Mary, don’t discourage her!” Princeton, of course, was only for boys at that time, but since I was only 8 years old, I had no idea.

We headed to the Princeton Battlefield for a picnic under the witness oak tree that fell not too long ago on a windless day, and when I got home, I wrote with my yellow pencil in my black-and-white marbled composition book. “I saw Princton (cq) School. I am going there. We had plums.”

It took Princeton a while longer to catch up.

By the time I arrived at Princeton again, a decade had passed. In the interim, we had moved to Indianapolis. Quite possibly Princeton’s emphasis on geographical distribution helped me gain admission because, in just the second year of coeducation, there were only 100-something women in my class. It all was so new that my guidance counselor at Lawrence Central High School marveled that the village of Princeton had a college, so it was up to me to explain that the school was in Princeton, New Jersey, not Indiana.

Princeton, to say the least, was intimidating to a kid from the Midwest. When I looked around, my classmates all seemed to be better prepared than anyone was in my public high school, which was mostly known for making Sports Illustrated for the longest losing streak in high school basketball history. On the other hand, my Princeton classmates had been to Europe — heck, some of them lived in Europe. They had names I recognized, parents I saw on TV, done things and been places I had only read about. After being one of the smartest kids in my high school, I went to precept wondering if I was smart enough to be there at all. I hadn’t ever written a paper.

When I did a story for The Daily Princetonian on the onset of grade inflation and “the demise of the Gentleman C” (awarded just for showing up) that had crept to a B, the great sociology professor Marvin Bressler chided me.

“Look around. Your classmates are the nation’s best and brightest. It’ll be up to you to solve the world’s problems.” 

“Uh-oh.” 

For years, I passed on returning to Reunions. The early intimidation of being a little Indiana guppy in a rather big tweedy pond had stuck. I wasn’t “almost famous” or remarkable at all, and no string of erudite initials or marching rows of zeroes in my bank account followed my name. I felt like I hadn’t measured up. 

But age wins. The desire to see old friends triumphs. The ego takes a back seat to love. And our friends welcome us. Eventually, I went back and then, back and back and back. Despite my fears, the greatest danger I experienced at Reunions was when I had to leap out of the way of a careening golf cart piloted by a grinning former Cabinet secretary.

That’s Princeton for you! Aren’t we all just so happy to be back? They can dig up the tennis courts with the charming gazebo and reconfigure the buildings and bring new shops to Palmer Square and it just doesn’t matter. (Well, maybe except for the Dinky.) In our hearts the old place is still as we remember it and we all look just the same.

In the end, Bressler was right. I can barely list the fields affected by my classmates who improved television, grew companies, worked in Congress, wrote books, served on presidential commissions, created new knowledge, and made oodles of money they then lavished on new buildings for the rest of us (thanks for Whitman College, Meg ’77!).

But here’s a sis-boom-bah to those who quietly used the critical thinking skills acquired in our precepts and the knowledge gained from the great books of the past to remake our lives and the lives of those around us, perhaps in smaller but still meaningful ways: Lawyers and librarians, teachers and farmers, moms and accountants — we raised families and served on school boards and did our jobs and helped whomever we could. We, in today’s parlance, showed up. That’s “Princeton in the nation’s service,” too.

And I’ll be glad to see all of us again this year at our 50th celebration of when we were young.

More than 30 years after my graduation, I was driving my newly admitted daughter (Victoria Tobolsky ’12) to freshman week when I nearly went off the road. Suddenly it had hit me — I had a female legacy at Princeton. I marveled that she was placed in a suite of eight women, which would have been a significant percentage of the women in my class.

I was back home again when I got her first excited call, reporting that her mailbox at the Frist Campus Center (thanks Bill ’74!) was eerily numbered 0870, her year of matriculation and mine. Plus it was punctuated by the fact that the Class of 2012 was the first class to finally achieve an equal split between males and females.

Karma, destiny, coincidence — who knows? Courtesy of an older daughter’s Hindu wedding, I have Indian family members now who would say the Universe always knows where we belong.

 And this weekend, for all of us, it’s right here.

So now I’ve started a female line at Princeton. I wonder what will happen if one of my daughters has a son. With any luck, I have acquired the genes of my mother, who tried to squelch me and died just recently at 96 (she was rather unsquelchable herself). I can picture myself in the Old Guard, perhaps with my daughter driving a golf cart — or maybe a hovercraft by then — and waving at that grandson at his first Reunions. That is, if Princeton lets him in. 

Joy Mcintyre ’74 specializes in creative communications and consulting.

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By Minrose Gwin

Fathers don’t fare well in my fiction. They are white supremacist killers and domestic abusers. They trick their wives into becoming pregnant. They have affairs. They abandon their families.

My biological father, Albert Coleman Bryan Jr., was 22 when I was born. He was a dashing air force pilot who flew off into the wide blue yonder, leaving my mother and me grounded.

He had red curly hair and freckles and a charming grin. It’s a face I don’t remember, if indeed I ever saw it. My parents split up around the time I was born.

I grew up tasting the bitterness of my father’s absence, especially at Christmas, when he sent me expensive presents. My mother would hand them to me without a word, and I would know to go into my closet to open them.

By then, she had remarried. In addition to a stepdad, I had a brother and sister. Our stockings were filled with bananas and oranges, little else.

In my closet, I would open the presents from my father, with cards signed by his secretary or someone in a store. Among the many gifts over the years, he sent me a pearl necklace, a portable typewriter and a birthstone ring. I’d know to tuck them away in my closet and never to mention them to my brother and sister.

Decades later, on an afternoon in May, I pull into a strip mall in Chapel Hill, N.C. I’m taking a break from grading end-of-semester papers. Before I get out of the car, I check my email to find a note from a woman named Jann, who informs me that she is my adopted half sister.

“What about my father?” I ask. “Is he still alive?”

Yes, Jann writes, my father is still alive. He is living at the Floyd E. “Tut” Fann State Veterans Home in Huntsville, Ala. He is 91 years old. Would I like to see him?

Jann discovered my existence when she was clearing out our father’s house, before he went into the home. She reached into a pants pocket and found an old wallet. Tucked inside was a tattered photo of me, a snaggletoothed first-grader at Church Street Elementary School in Tupelo, Miss. On the back was an inscription: Dear Daddy, Love, Minrose.

I had never thought of myself as a dirty little secret. My parents were married in the First Presbyterian Church. My mother wore the white dress with the long train. There was music and a dry reception in the church basement, my grandfather being a teetotaler. I was born two years later.

As soon as grades are posted, I book a flight to Alabama and throw some clothes in a suitcase. In Birmingham, I rent a car, spend the night in a ratty motel, and head for Huntsville the next morning. By the time I arrive at Jann’s condo, my head is pounding. I take a double dose of my blood pressure medication.

The humidity makes my shirt stick to my back as Jann ushers me into the nursing home. She tells me I’ll need to speak loudly; our father is almost deaf.

I anticipate a private meeting in his room, poignant, with perhaps a touch of awkwardness. What I get instead is a crowded lunchroom: the clanging of trays, voices garbled by age and infirmity, very, very old men, the stench of urine mixed with the odor of overcooked meat. Jann leads me through the hubbub, homing in on a crumpled, hairless version of myself in a wheelchair.

“Daddy!” she belts out. “Here’s your daughter come to see you. This is Minrose, your daughter!”

Jann then addresses the room at large: the old men, all white; the young attendants, all Black. “She’s his daughter, and it’s the first time they’ve ever met!” She is bursting with enthusiasm.

Heads swivel. Forks pause in midair. Attendants smile.

My father turns to me, as slow as an ancient tortoise.

“What took you so long?” he says.

Jann and the attendants laugh. I do not.

It takes me a moment to absorb the fact that these are the first words my father has ever uttered to me, his 69-year-old daughter. I thought I had left my bitterness behind but now I taste it on my tongue.

“Why did you leave?” I find myself shouting.

The silence in the room thickens. Someone calls out, “Not very nice.”

I see two dozen sets of eyes glaring at me. My own little personal drama, I realize, has become a soap opera, and I’m the villain.

My father offers a toothless grin. “Just stupid, I guess,” he says with a laugh. And I find myself laughing, too.

Later, I will discover that my father had delivered babies in Huntsville. Women loved him. In his heyday, he was a jokester, a pilot, a dancer, a chef — the life of the party.

During his second marriage, he impregnated two single women, first his anesthesiology nurse, then his receptionist, both of whom gave up their baby boys for adoption, meaning I have two half brothers I’ve never met.

In the nursing home, I tell my father he has a granddaughter in Dallas. He asks about my mother. I tell him she died two decades ago of ovarian cancer. I also tell him she became mentally ill, that I had to commit her to psychiatric hospitals — a nice private one, then a grim state institution — against her will.

What I don’t tell him: I knew, early on, that something had happened to my mother. Something had gone click, turned off. Old photographs show me, a curly-haired, round-faced child clutching a stuffed rabbit twice my size as my mother gazes off into the distance.

He shakes his head. Then he mutters something.

“Speak up, Daddy,” Jann commands.

He examines my face. I bend down to hear what he’s about to say.

He whispers, “Why didn’t you come before?”

He died two weeks later. Jann wrote me that the Episcopal Church was filled. I was not mentioned in the obituary.

Minrose Gwin is the author of the novels “The Accidentals,” “Promise” and “The Queen of Palmyra.” Her next novel, “Beautiful Dreamers,” comes out this summer.

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Pune Porsche crash: Why teen who killed 2 has been let off with writing an essay while father has been detained

A 17-year-old in Maharashtra’s Pune has been granted bail on the condition that he write a 300-word essay after allegedly driving drunk and killing two people. Two days after the incident, the juvenile’s father was detained as per the Motor Vehicles Act, 2019. The tragedy has sparked outrage, with many slamming the judiciary and the existing traffic laws read more

Picture this: you indulge in drink driving, and then allegedly run over two people, killing them. What would be your punishment by law? In case of a 17-year-old in Pune, he was granted bail for the incident on the condition that he writes an essay on the crash and works with the traffic police for 15 days.

While it may sound incredulous and unbelievable, it is, in fact, a shocking truth. A teen in Pune has been let off on bail on the condition that he work with Pune’s Yerwada traffic police, compose an essay on the accident, undergo treatment for alcohol dependency and then submit a report thereafter.

The incident has left many balking at the court’s decision. Pune’s Police has, in fact, said that the teen should be tried as an adult, adding that they would appeal to a higher court now.

And on Tuesday (21 May), the father of the accused teen has been detained in the crime.

We take a closer look at the entire incident, the laws involved and what society has to say about this.

The incident

In the wee hours of Sunday (19 May), Aneesh Awadhiya and his friend Ashwini Koshta, both 24, died when the motorbike they were on was hit by a Porsche allegedly driven by a 17-year-old in the Kalyani Nagar locality of Pune in the western state of Maharashtra. While Ashwini died on the spot, Aneesh was shifted to a city hospital, where he died soon after.

Investigating the matter, the Pune Police then arrested a 17-year-old, who they believed was behind the wheel of the luxury car when it hit the bike. Pune Commissioner of Police Amitesh Kumar said that the minor, belonging to a prominent realtor’s family, was celebrating his Class XII results at a local pub, where he was seen consuming alcohol before the crash.

While he was heading home from the bar, the teen lost control of the car and rammed into a motorcycle at the Kalyani Nagar junction around 2.30 am.

“Upon inquiry, the minor has said his father had handed over the grey Porsche to him despite knowing that he had no driver’s training and did not have a driver’s licence. He has also said his father allowed him to party with his friends and that his father was aware that he was consuming alcohol,” reads the FIR registered by Assistant Police Inspector Vishwanath Todkari at Yerwada Police Station, as per an Indian Express report.

Following the incident, Deputy Commissioner of Pune City Police Vijay Kumar Magar arrested the juvenile, after booking him for rash and negligent driving, as well as causing harm by endangering life or personal safety under IPC sections 304A, 279, 337, 338, and 427, in addition to relevant sections of the Maharashtra Motor Vehicle Act.

Teen granted bail, outrage ensues

After being apprehended, the 17-year-old was produced before the holiday court on Sunday afternoon where authorities sought his custody and permission to try him as an adult. However, the court refused and granted him bail within 14 hours of the crime under certain conditions.

The police stated that bail was granted as the court did not find the crime committed by the juvenile to be serious.

The teen’s lawyer, Prashant Patil, said the court granted bail on certain conditions. First, the teen would have to “work with traffic police of Yerwada for 15 days”. Secondly, he would have to pen a 300-word essay on the ‘effect of road accident and their solution’. As part of his bail conditions, the teen accused would also have to undergo treatment from a doctor to help him quit drinking and “take psychiatric counselling” and submit the report to the court.

After news broke of the bail conditions in the matter, outrage ensued, with many accusing the judge of going soft on the accused. Many expressed their contempt for the system on X; some calling the Indian judiciary “a joke”. Another wrote, “Hope the criminal writes a good essay to impress the honourable judge. Just can’t express how I feel about it.”

Family of the two victims also expressed anger at the court’s decision. Koshta’s family in Jabalpur in Madhya Pradesh said they were dismayed by the bail conditions. “We are in shock,” her uncle Jugal Kishor Koshta told NDTV . “It is condemnable that he should get bail. He and his parents should be investigated.”

Koshta’s other uncle told NDTV , “We want his bail cancelled and he should remain in police custody. Because of him, an innocent girl, who has seen nothing of life, died.”

Awadhiya’s family also echoed similar sentiments. Atmaram Awadhiya, the grandfather, said that the teen should not be granted bail. “Two people have died in this accident. This is completely wrong. We want strict punishment. The bail granted to the accused should be cancelled,” he was quoted as telling NDTV .

The victim’s uncle also chimed in, saying: “The accused, a minor, was drunk and was driving at 240 km per hour. He did not have a driving licence. This is murder, not accident.”

Following the outrage, Maharashtra’s deputy chief minister Devendra Fadnavis reached out to the Pune Police Commissioner Amitesh Kumar and asked him to ensure there was no soft-pedalling against the accused in the Porsche hit-and-run case. And following this, Commissioner Kumar said that they would appeal the order in a higher court. “We will not leave any stone unturned to prove that this is a heinous crime,” he was quoted as telling India Today .

#WATCH | Maharashtra: Visuals of the Porsche car and bike currently at Yerwada Police Station in Pune. Two people were killed when a speeding Porsche car hit them from behind on 19th May. The accused has been granted bail by the Juvenile Justice Board and his father was… https://t.co/HKj8uK4d9q pic.twitter.com/91SeqwfTeN — ANI (@ANI) May 21, 2024

Father detained

On Tuesday (21 May), the Pune Police detained the father of the teen accused from Maharashtra’s Chhatrapati Sambhajinagar, formerly known as Aurangabad, and will bring him back to the city for further probe.

The father, a prominent realtor in Pune, was on the run since the incident. He has now been booked under the provision of sections 75 and 77 of the Juvenile Justice Act on the charges of allowing his minor son to drive the Porsche and consume liquor. Section 75 deals with “wilful neglect of a child, or exposing a child to mental or physical illnesses,” while section 77 deals with supplying a child with intoxicating liquor or drugs.

According to the FIR lodged in connection with the incident, the man, despite knowing his son did not have a valid driving licence, gave him the car, thus endangering the latter’s life, and allowed him to party even as the father knew that he consumes liquor.

Apart from this, the Pune police have arrested Cosie restaurant owner Pralhad Bhutda and manager Sachin Katkar and Hotel Blak manager Sandip Sangle for allegedly serving alcohol to the juvenile, Additional Commissioner of Police (Crime) Shailesh Balkawade said.

What the law says

The accused teen has been charged under Section 304A of the IPC, which deals with causing death by negligence. Moreover, he has been charged with Section 279 of the IPC, which deals with rash driving.

But then why has his father been arrested? As per the Motor Vehicles (Amendment) Act, 2019, parents/guardians of juveniles shall be held guilty in case of an offence by a juvenile. The law mandates that a fine of Rs 25,000 with three years’ imprisonment will be imposed and the juvenile will be tried under the Juvenile Justice (Care and Protection of Children) Act while the registration of the vehicle will be cancelled.

The law also states that the juvenile shall not be granted a driver’s licence until the minor has attained the age of 25.

This change was introduced after a parliamentary panel had suggested higher penalties for traffic offences. In fact, the panel had recommended treating accidents caused by drink driving as pre-meditated crimes rather than as cases of ‘negligence’.

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I ran away from a troubled teen program and escaped for good. This is my story

Lately, I’ve been having nightmares that I’m back in boarding school.

Each dream begins innocuously enough. I find myself walking down a hallway past classmates standing in line in the dining hall. Sometimes, one of them is suddenly tackled to the ground. They struggle under the weight of fellow student who tries to restrain them. Other times, I’m sitting in a corner with my eyes fixed on a blank wall as days stretch into weeks and months.

The faces are all a blur in the dreams, but the swirl of fear and distress, the pounding in my chest and the rage that I feel are sharp. 

The dreams are more like memories, as tangible as they were to me in the days after my parents dropped me off at The DeSisto School in Stockbridge, Massachusetts, and I began to realize that although I was surrounded by people, I was desperately alone.

I started watching the true crime documentary “ The Program,” directed by troubled teen program alum Katherine Kubler, at my sister-in-law’s recommendation. “You guys have to see this,” she said soon after it debuted, certain that my wife and I would have seen nothing like it.

As she laid out the documentary's details — a group of teens sent off to a behavior modification facility — I realized that she was describing a story that was not unlike the one I experienced as a teenager.

Like Kubler, I was a high school student when my parents determined that I was beyond their control. I’d been diagnosed with ADHD and was expelled from two schools, the second one being a military academy.

While Kubler experienced the shock of being taken away by strangers and dropped off at a school without any parental contact or explanation of where she was going, I actually picked out DeSisto.

After collecting me from the military school, my mother sat me down in her office, handed me a few brochures, and, to my surprise, told me to find the next school that I would go to.

Eventually, I came across one for DeSisto, which sold a story about a therapeutic environment for artistic kids who were misunderstood. The school featured images of a picturesque estate that drew me in.

I never suspected that within 48 hours of my arrival, I would be sobbing, pleading to be sent back home.

Erich Bartlebaugh

Not long after selecting DeSisto, I was driving up to an idyllic Massachusetts town nestled in the mountains. My mother, step-father and I spent my last night before I headed to DeSisto at a bed and breakfast. It was October, and I still remember the autumn leaves and their colors. I took a long bath in a clawfoot tub and savored a king-sized Snickers bar. I had a feeling it was going to be my last for a long time.

Immediately after entering the gated property, I realized I had landed in a new society, governed by new rules. The entire campus was in the middle of a two-week-long sit-in meeting, prompted by someone graffitiing the boys’ bathroom. Pressure was put on every student until someone confessed or was outed by a peer.  

“Sit in” was the start of new vocabulary I became fluent in, reflective of DeSisto’s authoritarian streak. 

Immediately after entering the gated property, I realized I had landed in a new society, governed by new rules.

Rather than friends, new kids were assigned “buddies.” Two students were paired together and responsible, by proxy, for whatever their buddy did or said. We could never be more than a hand’s reach away from a buddy or from another student, for that matter. We were required to travel in groups of three, the reason being that a pair could come up with a notion to run off, but adding an additional student into the mix undermined cohesion.

Every morning was anxiety ridden because of all the potential punishments. 

If you broke the dress code or stained your outfit, you were "suited" and had to wear a formal suit, including tie and dress socks, until you were given reprieve. If the issue continued, you would be "sheeted," which meant you weren’t allowed to wear clothes — just a sheet tied like a toga.

“Ghosted” meant everyone had to ignore your presence. “Silenced” meant you weren’t allowed to make a sound. “No PC” meant you couldn’t have physical contact with anyone. “Hand held” meant you  had  to hold hands, sometimes for hours, no matter what tasks needed to be done.

During "limit structures," students were held to the ground by other students and verbally assaulted with personal jabs. The goal was to break a person down.

“Cornering” was DeSisto’s version of a time-out. We had to sit in a metal chair facing a corner. Once, I was cornered for 60 days. I was only able to get up to use the bathroom and eat. I was allowed limited access to showers. No phone calls with parents or interactions with other students. Nothing. I was so furious and despondent that, at some point, I began to rattle off the F-word over and over again. That was the only curse word we weren’t allowed to say. Each time I said it warranted a $1 penalty.

Then, there was the Farm, the prison of DeSisto. There, students lived separated from the rest of campus, deprived of all possessions including personal clothing. We couldn’t contact home. We had to do everything as a group — including bathroom time. Entire dorms were farmed at once. For example, if the nightly dorm meeting went past midnight because we couldn’t reach a group consensus, we all would be farmed. Happened all the time.

Once, I was withheld from seeing my parents because I was accused of violence for smacking my hand on a sofa during a dorm meeting. This was devastating, and a defining moment when I realized I had no freedom.

My days at DeSisto were tedious and toiling. I was there for just under three years, it still feels like a decade. Every day dragged, and every week and month was so painfully slow that I just lived day to day. I saw how the desperate circumstances took a toll on all of us. 

Some of my fellow students went along with situations most would see as inappropriate in exchange for rewards and freedom. Students didn’t have access to television, but some of the administrators had them in their rooms. Once, a male staffer of the school invited two other boys and me to watch a movie in his quarters. He’d been sitting with his arms around them on the sofa when he asked me to come sit by him. I got a funny feeling and said no. I was never invited back. Later, as I tried to make sense of the things that happened there and connected with former students, I heard stories that confirmed my instincts weren’t wrong.

I became defiant, running away when I found my chances. I ran away from DeSisto three times. The first two times, I was dragged back in a van. My final time, I was determined.

I escaped out of the Farm’s bathroom window. It was the only window that opened in the building. I had convinced the sole staff member to let me close the bathroom door for privacy. As I crawled into the window, he opened the door and yelled. I looked back at him and jumped. I knew at that point I had to just keep running. 

After three years at DeSisto, I ran off into the swampy woods beyond the school, my feet sinking into the mud as I chased after my freedom with little foresight about my next move. Nobody came far enough into the wetlands to find me. Since I was 18 when I ran, once I was off campus, they could not legally bring me back. 

I hiked the main road into town, putting together a plan to ask for some quarters to make a call. I was able to contact an old employee named Luis, whom some of the students trusted. He agreed to pick me up at the Piggly Wiggly in town.

There’s a reason I didn’t call my parents. By the time I left, if there was one lesson I’d learned from my time at DeSisto, it was that I could not rely on them to understand. In “The Program,” Kubler explains her parents were conditioned into believing that anything negative she said about the program was a lie or manipulation. DeSisto’s parents were instructed on this, too. They were advised that if they took in their children after they ran away, their children would be expelled, and years of education — and tuition — would become null and void. 

By the time I got to the parking lot, it was dark. I walked over to a trash can and found it had just been emptied and lined with a new bag, which I took and used as a sleeping bag. I spent my first night outside of DeSisto in almost three years, lying on a bench outside, hungry, thirsty and shivering. 

So much had happened and changed since I was 15 years old and soaking in the clawfoot tub with a Snickers bar.

Founder Michael DeSisto died in 2003 and DeSisto itself shut down in 2004 after controversies, including  fights with the state of Massachusetts over licensing  and allegations of child abuse. The Massachusetts Office of Child Care Services wrote, in a complaint, the school “denies students basic human rights” through practices like strip searches and farming students. 

In 2004, DeSisto was under state investigation for incidents including a staffer waiting more than 90 minutes to take a student to the hospital after she self-harmed and swallowed two razor blades, the  Boston Globe  reported at the time. 

“We admit our response was less than adequate and we’ve dealt with it,” Frank McNear, the school’s director at the time, said at the time. “You’ve got a lot of kids with a lot of pathologies here. I won’t tell you we’re a perfect school, but we’re totally committed to addressing problems as they surface.”

I’ve lived so many different lives since leaving. I’ve spent most of my life trying to push the negative parts of my past aside and focus on moving forward. 

But every once in a while, something pulls me back — terminology, a headline, and more recently, “The Program.” I’ve been told before that I display post-traumatic stress symptoms, but it wasn’t until recently that I connected my feelings, my anger, to my school experience.

I’ve started opening up about my feelings more in the years since I escaped, especially as other lawsuits against the school validate that I wasn’t just a teenager, dramatizing my experience to make my parents feel guilty. My concerns were valid. I've felt less alone.

Survivors, if you can call us that, tend to discuss it amongst themselves, but I never really shared the full extent with anyone outside of them, not even my wife.

Our community of former DeSisto students is more than plagued by the memories of what happened there. Too often, we are confronted by the concerning reality that DeSisto’s body of alumni is vulnerable to death by suicide. The death announcements of a familiar name or face continue to haunt us. 

During COVID, I learned that my friend Sarah died by suicide. I still tear up when I think of her. She was a talented performer and an amazing illustrator. A group of us used to hang out after “meal jobs” were done, when we cleaned the dining room, washed the dishes and prepared for the next meal. She was full of life and laughter but struggled with self-esteem and low self worth. She was a really special and kind person. 

In the decades after we left DeSisto, it’s my understanding that her struggle went on for years. She deserved better. 

I can’t entirely say that my experience at DeSisto was all bad. The truth is, I really began my journey to adulthood there. I learned self-awareness, self-worth and work ethic. I learned responsibility for my actions as well as my emotions. But I also learned distrust, abandonment and the level at which my own vulnerability could be exploited. 

But I can say that much of my life in the years since has felt like climbing out of a massive hole. 

After a failed attempt at community college and many odd jobs, I found direction and put all my energy into graduating from art school. My relationship with my mom and stepdad was OK at this point, but everything was still unresolved. My biological dad and I spoke once every five years at this point. 

I continued to struggle, but eventually, in my 20s, I got my bachelor’s. I learned to understand my parents more. I married and had two beautiful twin boys. I got divorced, I got sober and eventually, I found myself escaped from the black and away from the threat of tipping over the edge. In 2014, I learned what it was to have a real relationship with trust, love and respect. Seven years later, we welcomed our beautiful boy. 

I look at my sons and see how different they are from one another — and see the similarities they have with the old me.

I worry about whether they will struggle the same ways I did, and what will I do — what  can  I do — if they do? Truth is, I could never imagine sending my kids away and frankly, I never would. But I also don’t have a clue what I could do as an alternative. If DeSisto was the wrong choice, what would the right one have been? Was I in that situation as a teen due to nurture or nature?

I appreciate my sons’ personalities and struggles. I so desperately want to make sure that they never feel alone. They are the faces I force my brain to sharpen in on of when the memories of DeSisto begin to creep in, threatening to blur my current reality. They are the ones that bring me back to my life.

Erich Bartlebaugh is the art director of creative for NBC NEWS and MSNBC. He lives in New York.

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